To prepare for our three-day trip to Delaware, I started by looking through a guidebook, Moon Handbooks: Maryland & Delaware. Focusing on the Delaware section, I found two areas to explore, Upper Delaware and Lower Delaware. I read about the du Pont family, why Wilmington has seen hard times, and about the history in the area.
I found some novels and a memoir set in Delaware, as follows:
- The Book of Unknown Americans by Cristina Henrรญquez (& Mexico) ****
- Shattered: Reclaiming a Life Torn Apart by Violence by Debra Puglisi Sharp & Marjorie Preston (memoir) – my copy of this book is autographed by the author, who I met at a writer’s conference in Dewey Beach, De. in 2005. ****
- The Saint of Lost Things by Christopher Castellani ****
- Beloved by Toni Morrison (also Ohio & Kentucky)
- West of Rehoboth by Alexs D. Pate
I finished the first three books and I own #4.ย I don’t know if I’ll have time to read more than the first three as we’re going at the end of December or in early January.

Preparing for Delaware

Living room at Winterthur in Delaware
Itinerary:
Day 1: UPPER DELAWARE
- Drive to Nemours Mansion and Gardens (2 h 33 min drive)
- Delaware Art Museum in Wilmington (7 minutes)
- Old Swedeโs Church in Wilmington (12 minutes) (Make appointment on website)
- Walk around Wilmington, including the Riverfront
- Stay night in New Castle (17 minutes)
DAY 2: UPPER & LOWER DELAWARE
- New Castle Court House Museum
- New Castle Historic Homes (can only see outside in January)
- Biggs Museum of American Art, Dover, DE (51 minutes)
- LOWER DELAWARE
- Bombay Hook National Wildlife Refuge (21 minutes)
- Cape Henlopen State Park (1 hour 4 minutes)
- Stay the night in Rehoboth
DAY 3: LOWER DELAWARE AND RETURN HOME:
- Rehoboth Beach Boardwalk (25 minutes)
- Delaware Seashore State Park (18 minutes)
- Drive home (3 hr 12 minutes)
JOURNAL AND INTENTIONS:
Here are my intentions for this trip:

My intentions for Delaware
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Looking forward to the riverfront walk. I have limited access here in the UK but I’ll be back in the Algarve tomorrow. Have a wonderful trip! ๐ xx
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You might like the beachfront walks more than the river walk, Jo. I’m looking forward to going to the beach in winter; I love when it’s all windswept and deserted. We were going to go Friday-Sunday, but it rained all day yesterday, so we’ll wait till later in January to go. I don’t want to go anywhere in the rain if we can help it! I hope you had fun in the UK, and I guess you’re now back home! Happy New Year. ๐
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We walked round Hartlepool marina at night and along the seafront the following morning, Cathy. Flipping freezing ๐ ๐ But wonderful to see everyone, and yes- I’m home again!
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Brrr. It can be so cold in winter by the sea, I know. I’m glad you enjoyed your Christmas and are now back safely in your new home!
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Your preparation is, as always, Cathy, so thorough. How do you work out the times down to the minute and do you stick to those times? I like the idea of picking a theme for each day and random nouns for your travel essays. Look forward to the virtual trip with you
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I honestly didn’t mean to include the times in the blog, Pauline; they were more for my information. They are estimated driving times, figured out from Google Maps. They’re just so I will know how much time it will take to get from one place to the next. I also did this for my road trip to the Four Corners in May. Thanks so much. I’m glad you like my ideas for the essays. We’ll see how it goes. ๐
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Google maps are so useful
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They sure are. I find them so valuable in all my travels. ๐
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I love your diligent prep, Cathy!
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Thanks Sue. There is nothing I hate worse than arriving somewhere and not having a clue what to do. I did that the first time I went to Lisbon, and everything seemed so random and overwhelming!
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Ah, OK….have you done a post on Lisbon? Where would you recommend seeing there?
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I went to Lisbon in 2013, Sue, and I wrote a number of posts here: https://catbirdineurope.wordpress.com/?s=lisbon
As for recommendations, I’d have to think on it, but the Castle, Alfama neighborhood, and all the wonderful churches and the azulejos everywhere, and the laundry handing on derelict buildings, that’s what I love most. Lisbon, I found, is a town in which to just to wander! But I didn’t know that when I arrived, and felt very unsure what I was supposed to do. When we went back (my husband and I) this fall, I knew so much better what we should do. It felt good to have become a bit of an expert – if one can become such a thing about a place!
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Many thanks, Cathy, that will be very useful! I have a few hours in Lisbon and shall hire a TukTuk as I can’t easily get about. Alfama was the main place I wanted to get to, so good to see some of your images
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Tuk tuks will be a great way to get around in Lisbon, Sue. It is one of the hilliest cities I’ve ever visited! Alfama has such character. I hope you’ll love it. When will you go? I sure hope the weather is nicer for you than it was for us.
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Late March……
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Have fun! Here’s wishing for a great adventure. ๐
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I do hope so! Thanks, Cathy ๐
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Ooh, and derelict buildings I hope to see!
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I’ll have plenty of those for sure!
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Yippee says the photographer
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Now that is A PLAN
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Haha! I see your follow up comment…
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Sorry, hadn’t finished my comment above. I wish I had your diligence when it comes to planning a trip and writing about it. I tend to jump in haphazardly these days and just let happen what happens. I think you probably get more from your trips doing it your way but the prep alone must take a long time so I doubt if I could manage it, as I tend to read right up until the moment I have to leave. To your list I would add, read a novel, or novels, about the area for finding out about the real place.
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It’s good to be spontaneous, Mari; I wish I were more that way, but I like to know what to expect, and I don’t like arriving someplace without some kind of clue about what to do. Travel is so expensive and time consuming that I always want to get the most out of my time. I enjoy the prep time as much as the travel because it extends the experience, but then I have the time and don’t have to work, so I can do this. As for reading novels, I always read as many novels set in my destination as I can before I go, and I often take along another one set there. I listed the novels set in Delaware that I either read or am reading at the beginning of this post. I also have created a page about books set in destinations: https://wanderessence.com/books-set-in-the-u-s-a/ I also have a page about international books and other books – writing, poetry, etc. in all my pages. It’s fun to organize my reading list each year around my travels as I love to read and then think about the stories as I make my way through new places. ๐
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Have a marvellous trip.
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Thanks, Carol. Because of rain, it looks like we’ll go later this month – I hope. Although January is often pretty bad weather-wise. ๐
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You are such a great planner. Have a wonderful trip!
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Thanks, Robin. Let’s hope for some good weather in January!
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You are my muse! After reading your previous post I began thinking about my imminent 4 weeks in Stanthorpe which Iโve visited umpteen times before, trying to plan for seeing it anew and for new things to see. Nothing like as thorough as you for three days. Your times are astonishing. Iโm off to continue thinking about my intentions and my projects, with your page for inspiration, trying to work out how to ferret out new things to do. Enjoy Delaware.
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You’re so sweet, Meg, to say I give you some inspiration! I think it’s fun to plan (it must be my Type A personality!); I have visited places without any plan and I feel I missed important things I would have like to have seen, so I try hard to think of all the things I’d like to do in a place. I don’t know anything about Stanthorpe, so I hope you’ll write your wonderfully creative posts about your visit, although, sadly, I know you’ve sworn off blogging for a while. As for my times, they are simply estimated driving times, so I know how long it will take to get from point A to point B, and thus how much time we’ll have altogether.
We intended to go to Delaware this weekend, but because of rain, we put it off till some later weekend in January. It’s easy enough to do since it’s not too far. ๐
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It looks like you have plenty to do in your three days. Which brings me to the question, do you ever do ‘spur of the moment’ trips?
I look forward to the resulting posts from this location, not a region I know at all, other than from the song I loved as a small child with the line “What did Delaware, boy, what did Delaware. She wore a brand New Jersey… ” by I think Perry Como!! ๐
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Thanks, Jude. We’ll do spur of the moment trips if they’re just day trips, where we don’t spend the night somewhere. If I’m going to have the expense of a hotel room and drive any distance, then I like to have a plan. Interesting about that song; I’ve never heard it before. I’ll have to see if I can find it on YouTube.
I often overlook Delaware as a destination because it seems more of a drive-through state, but I like to believe every place has something of interest. ๐
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You are too young to remember it Cathy. I used to sing along to it as a small girl and it probably taught me about the names of US states more than any geography lesson did!
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Wow! You may know the states better than I do! That’s so cute, Jude. ๐
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I doubt it Cathy, being six is a long long time ago!
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Haha, that’s for sure, Jude!
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