When we return home from our wanderings, many of us long to create some kind of artistic expression of our experience.ย Maybe we simply blog about it in a chronological fashion, much like a diary, accompanied by photos.ย Perhaps we write fictional tales, or we research and write about the history of the culture and how we were affected by it; possibly we draw or paint something we saw along the way. Perhaps we have a journal to show for our journey, or we create a scrapbook, or we post photographs.

HOME- Chania, Crete, Greece
We might want to consider how we’ve changed as a result of our travels, or what we learned.ย Perhaps we want to relive our experience by lingering over it or meditating over it. Maybe we want to write a book, or poems, or a series of short stories about our meanderings.
We might have discovered a theme for our journey that we can express in an essay or in a photo montage. Maybe we trace our route on a map and find a meaningful connection to our journey that we were blind to before.
Possibly, when we’ve returned, we see our home in a different light.ย Maybe we realize we need a change, we want to re-invent ourselves or our world, or we’re simply grateful for what we have.ย Maybe we want to create a collage in a shadow box or a display case.ย Maybe we collected paintings or sculptures or drawings we can display in our houses, or new clothes or scarves we can incorporate into our wardrobes.ย We might have bought some cowboy boots or turquoise jewelry or crafts, or possibly some postcards we’ll have framed.

Home – Pokhara, Nepal
Perhaps we sent a postcard home to ourselves from that distant place, with reflections from our travels, and we are surprised and enlightened when we receive those faraway thoughts in our home mailbox.

Home – Inle Lake, Myanmar
Here are a few ideas of things we might do upon our return home:
- Contemplate: How can we re-invent ourselves and re-create our world?
- Chronologically list what happened on our trip. Now write it as an epic journey, in 3rd person and past tense.
- Try to articulate the theme of the journey: forgiveness, closure, retribution, discovery, benevolence, responsibility, connection, acceptance. Charm, willingness to listen, tact, strength, honesty, cheerfulness, self-esteem, mental clarity, openness to change, generosity of spirit, flexibility, good humor, fortitude, courage, curiosity, patience, bravery, justice, kindness, beauty, truth, daring.
- Create a journal with a few photos from our wanderings.
- Look at maps and figure out how we are connected to our journey.
- How have things stubbornly refused to change?
- What are we blind to at home? Can we see them with fresh vision? What does our homeland have to offer? What can we notice that we have already seen?
- What have we have learned from our journey? Reflect on the uniqueness of the culture, people, food, lifestyles. Come to a deeper understanding of our world’s inextricably-connected current and past history.
- How can we capture our journey when we return home? We can complete our travel journal and any sketches.ย Create an original style of photo album.ย Edit photos and create thematic blog posts. Make collages from photographs, newspaper clippings, old postcards, leaves and stones in a box frame or in an art journal.
- Have we become different people during our wanderings.ย In what ways? Are our everyday thoughts altered by what we encountered on our journey? How can we carry the quality of our journey into our everyday life?

HOME – Cape May, NJ
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โON RETURNING HOMEโ INVITATION: I invite you to write a 500-750 word (or less) post on your own blog about returning home from one particular destination or, alternately, from a long journey encompassing many stops.ย How do you linger over your wanderings and create something from them?ย How have you changed? Feel free to address any aspect of your journey and how it influences you upon your return; you can use any of the above prompts or your own. If you donโt have a blog, I invite you to write in the comments.
Include the link in the comments below by Sunday, April 15 at 1:00 p.m. EST.ย When I write my post in response to this challenge on Monday, April 16, Iโll include your links in that post.
This will be an ongoing invitation, beginning next Monday, and on the first Monday of each month after that. Feel free to jump in at any time. ๐
I hope youโll join in our community. I look forward to reading your posts!
Wow. Just wow. Your pictures are stunning.
The one from Chania was my favorite this time, made me remember that pretty little harbor and the sounds and smells of Crete…
One day (I keep saying that, one day…) I’ll have to scan at least a few of those photos into my computer.
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Thanks so much, Shia. I loved Chania so much I wanted to move there immediately, and I want to live in THAT house! I loved Crete. You should definitely scan those pictures, but it is so time-consuming isn’t it?
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I loved Crete, too! It’s one of my favorite places – evident by the fact I went back a few times.
The photo task is definitely a daunting one – there’s just so many of them, even if I left out all the travel with my parents when I was a child/teen.
But your post prompted me to look at my the last album from Crete/Santorini and I had a couple of huge smiles remembering that trip. Thank you! ๐
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I’d love to go back to Crete, but what I’d really like is to have an apartment just like the one I took a picture of! I’m glad I sent you back to your last album from Crete (I loved Santorini too, but it was more touristy, so not as much), and that it brought you a smile. ๐
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Same old problem, Cathy. I want to live in ALL of those places. ๐ ๐ Putting down roots is a nightmare when you try to pull them up again. I’m tired of getting dusty and cross from sorting through stuff, and we’ve only just begun. ๐ฆ ๐ฆ I have yards of photos and albums I daren’t even think about. I was always going to cover a coffee table top with tickets and bits from my assorted journeys, but Mick just laughed at the idea. No imagination, some people! But then, he’d have to live with it as well.
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Yes, that is really a problem, isn’t it, Jo? Every time I think of getting an apartment in Europe, which I’m always suggesting to Mike, I can’t decide if it would be Portugal, Greece, Italy, or somewhere else entirely. Anyway, it’s a moot point because I haven’t convinced him yet! And yes, sorting through all the STUFF we accumulate in our lives is so difficult!! How do we get so much? The photos and albums are a real problem because they hold so many memories, so they’re the hardest to sort through. I love the coffee table idea. You should do it; it would make you smile every time you sat down with a cup of coffee! Mick would like it when it was all done, I’m sure. It would bring back so many memories of what you shared together. ๐
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Maybe something for rainy days in the Algarve xx
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This challenge of yours is really growing on me Cathy, I’ll get there!
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Thanks, Gilly. I think you’ll find it more fun when I get into writing poetry, which probably won’t be until I get back from my Four Corners Road trip in May (so maybe in June). I think you might want to take part because you’re such a poet! I hope you’ll teach me a few things! Take your time, and join in any time. ๐
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Ah, yes…returning home…. I don’t have anything extra to add, but I’ll post something….
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Your images are gorgeous, Cathy. Your challenges are wonderful, too. I already have an idea for this one. ๐
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Thanks so much, Robin. Great, I can’t wait to read what you come up with. ๐
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I like the idea of all your challenges, but donโt have the time at the moment to turn my thinking around from my straightforward diary approach. I remember you said you were getting bored writing that way and I am beginning to feel that too. Maybe when we go back to Amsterdam next month – Iโve only just finished writing about our November trip, i canโt do all that again!
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Thank, Anabel. I hope you’ll join whenever you’re ready. It is hard for ME to turn my thinking around from my diary approach, and I may not be successful at it right away, but I’m working to get away from it, even if slowly. I have such a logical mind, so it’s super difficult for me to get out of that mode.
Like you, I have no desire to rewrite any of my former posts; I’m only doing it going forward. But I want to push myself to change, mainly because I’m tired of doing what I’ve been doing. We all have to do whatever fulfills us, even if it means more work initially to get up the learning curve (at least for me!). My dream has always been to write fiction, so eventually I’ll add some fiction and poetry invitations as well. ๐
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Ah, fiction and poetry I will draw the line at! I wasnโt meaning to do any rewriting exactly, just having written loads about Amsterdam already I donโt want to write another set of diary posts. Your 5 iconic themes might be a good approach (hope Iโve remembered that right!)
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That’s one for sure. You are more of a history buff, so I imagine the facts sit better with you!
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wander.essence 10 April
Youโve had so many wonderful homes, in so many exotic places. You photos are exciting, and so are your suggestions for all the things we might do on returning home.
At last Iโm getting a feel for the shape of your amazing blog. Iโve just begun a wanderessence timetable in my jottings diary so I know what to do when.
Thinking about returning home from Warsaw could well shape my experience of it. Usually when I come home I take a ramble around my headlands, lakes and beaches to reclaim home. Even after a year in Warsaw I found it hard to think about its effect on me. I also find it hard to encapsulate essence of Warsaw – is it the strangeness of Warsaw, or just the strangeness of city? I havenโt lived in the city for 40 odd years.
Thank you for more inspiration.
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Oh Meg, sorry! I guess I should have been more clear on this post. These are not MY homes, just somebody’s homes! I wish! I was simply trying to convey the idea of home using some pictures I’ve collected in my travels.
You’re so nice! I really appreciate your encouraging words. This is all new for me, and I’m having fun with it, so I hope we can all find inspiration in each other.
Once May rolls around, I’ll be offering the invitations on a monthly basis. Like for instance, “on journey” will be on the third Wednesday of each month, etc. It will all fall into place by May and June, I hope. Then everyone can know what to expect when. ๐
How interesting that you like to ramble around the headlands to reclaim home. I love that. I would also love to see your thoughts on the essence of Warsaw. I’ve never been to Poland, so it would be interesting to me as an outsider.
As I’m planning to walk the Camino in September and October, I am really hoping to be thoughtful about how it might change my life and outlook going forward. People say the Camino really does change you. I think all travel changes you though! So, the question is interesting and one to be mindful of upon return.
I can’t wait to see what you write on your upcoming travels. ๐
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I thought the homes might have been your travelling accommodation! Iโm certainly finding inspiration in your posts: they couldnโt be more opportune!
Will your blog be silent while youโre travelling the Camino?
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I WISH those homes were my traveling accommodations! No such luck.
I’m so happy you’re finding inspiration, Meg. That makes me really happy. It’s the teacher in me coming out, after being frustrated for many years teaching English as a foreign language – that was so boring to me.
I’m going first to the Four Corners area from May 1-25. I hope to schedule posts while I”m gone, and just add any posts by readers to the appropriate theme. I hope I can do it all, because I don’t want to lose momentum. The Camino isn’t until September, but I hope to have scheduled posts while I’m gone at that time too. ๐
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To be honest the one thing I appreciate on returning home, no matter where from or how long I have been away, is to sleep in my own bed! I am intrigued by your posts and challenges, but not certain where I can fit in as yet. No recent journeys to write about and none planned so far.
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I can certainly understand that, Jude. I know the feeling, especially after returning from Japan, where I slept on a futon on the floor for four months! As for the invitations, just feel free to jump in when you have something you want to share. The photography invitations certainly fit with your postcards from afar! ๐
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Thanks Cathy ๐
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Great questions, Cathy, for getting the most out of all the gifts we gather up during our journeys.
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Thanks, Annette. I’m offering a series of, I hope, thought-provoking invitations on my new blog. I would love for anyone to jump in at any time. If you are in the mood to write about why you are called to do the Camino, link it to my latest “call to place” posts and I’ll add your link to my next post. Or, I would love to read about “anticipation and preparation” if you are so inclined to write it. ๐ I admit, I would look forward to learning a few things! ๐
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I think I’ll have to wait until after my trip. So much to do right now….
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I’m sure you have a ton to do! I can’t imagine how stressed I’ll be when I’m getting ready to go. Good luck!
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[…] On her blogย https://wanderessence.com/ย Cathy Birdsong Dutchak poses many creative questions about travelling and how it effects us.ย One that stimulates my thoughts isย ย https://wanderessence.com/2018/04/09/on-returning-home/ […]
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Your ideas about how we feel after returning home from travel prompted me to write this post https://bloggingcalmandchaos.wordpress.com/2018/04/12/on-returning-home/
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I’m so glad you wrote this, Suzanne. I could relate on so many levels. I love the haiga – had to look it up to see it’s a calligraphy painting accompanied by haiku – and the walls of the canyon as calligraphy. I love when someone writes something that captures exactly how I feel. Thank you for contributing. I’ll post your link to my post on Monday, May 7. ๐
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Sorry to make you scramble to find the word haiga – I am so used to writing for poetry sites I forget not every one is into that stuff. Glad you enjoyed the post anyway.
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We love travelling, but it’s always nice to come home again. Like Jo, I appreciate my bed but the thing I look forward to most is having a shower. We have a great shower, with excellent water pressure! Shallow I know, but I really dislike having to run around the shower recess trying to catch the drops of water when the pressure is bad. ๐
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I don’t think anything you love to come home to is shallow, Carol. We are used to our creature comforts, and are always happy to return to them. I love a long hot soak in the bath; all four times I lived abroad, I didn’t have a bathtub, so I was happy to return to that! I grew to love my hard beds in Oman and China, but I was happy to get back to a real bed after sleeping on a futon on the floor in Japan. I can just picture you, or myself, running around the shower trying to catch drops of water! ๐
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I actually wrote a post mentioning showers in New Zealand. https://theeternaltraveller.wordpress.com/2013/06/18/the-10-best-things-about-new-zealand/ Being able to refresh at the end of a long day’s travel is so important.
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I could link this to my “on return post” Monday (tomorrow) or the prose invitation on Tuesday. Which would you prefer? It would fit either. ๐
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The returning home post would work well, because I was reflecting on what we enjoyed most about our trip. That would be great, thank you Cathy.
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I just linked it to that one. It will post early Monday morning here! Thanks for linking up, Carol.
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[…] post is linked to wanderessence, the returning home theme. Warsaw is in fact my second home, although each time I return to it […]
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Great post, Meg. I love how even though Warsaw is your second home, it still feels so disorienting because of the language barrier and general unfamiliarity with the lay of the land. I’ve linked this to my May 7 post of returning home. Thanks so much! You are my biggest participant. ๐
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I missed this post Cathy. Lots of inspirational suggestions. When travelling in Matilda over 4 years I always looked forward to the space and garden when we briefly came home between travels. But always looked forward to being back on the road. But as I get older I now enjoy the shorter trips and the routine of home appeals to me more with travel as a short interlude in that routine. I think Iโll do what Meg has done and make a programme of your scheduled challenges in my sketch book that goes every where with me.
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Thanks so much, Pauline. I can certainly understand that push and pull between being on the road and returning home. I feel the same thing. Luckily for you, you’ve found things to love at home and then can satisfy your wanderlust periodically. I also love my life at home, and have fun exploring my creative side while, at the same time, planning my adventures, and then going on them. I’m glad you’ve noted the invitation dates and will look forward to seeing what you create as time goes forward. Thanks so much. ๐
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