In anticipation of our trip to Nashville at the end of last December, I first bought Moon Tennessee by Margaret Littman, so I could read about the city.Β All I knew is I wanted to find Parnassus Books; I also figured country music would be involved, but other than that, I had no idea what the city had to offer.
As I started reading, I made a list of places to see and things to do:
- Drop into the honky-tonks on Broadway.
- Visit the Johnny Cash Museum.
- Go to the Country Music Hall of Fame and Museum, the Grand Ole Opry, and the Ryman Auditorium.Β Try to see a concert.
- Stop in at the Bluebird Cafe to hear live music, or any other live music venue.
- Go to Cheekwood Botanical Gardens and Museum of Art.
- Go on the Nash Trash Tour with the Jugg Sisters.
- See the Parthenon.
- Buy some cowboy boots!
Later, I read about Nashville in a book about road trips called Wanderful: The Modern Bohemian’s Guide to Traveling in Style by Andi Eaton, where I found out about the Murals of 12 South and “gas-stations-turned modern-shop” such as White’s Mercantile and Imogene & Willie, as well as Reese Witherspoon’s Draper James boutique. We found that the Old Crow Medicine Show was playing at the Grand Old Opry, but tickets were sold out.Β We’d have to find some other music venues.
Watching an Anthony Bourdain episode about Nashville, we figured we should seek out Nashville Hot Chicken, chicken marinated in a water-based blend of seasoning, floured, fried, drenched in a cayenne pepper paste, and served on white bread with pickle chips. It sounded good but highly decadent and super spicy!
My novel of choice was Whistling Past the Graveyard by Susan Crandall. It turned out only a small part of the book was set in Nashville; most was set in Mississippi in the summer of 1963, when the civil rights movement was underway. I was caught right away by the southern twang and dialect of the narrator, 9-year-old Starla Claudelle:
“I shoved the Frosted Flakes in my mouth to keep all the words spinning around in my head from shootin’ out.”
“I leaned so I could see into the kitchen. I was so low, I saw mostly legs. Miss Cyrena’s knee was jumpin’ like a jackhammer. I knew how she felt, all jittered up inside and no place to put the aggravation. Happened to me a lot.”
Red-headed Starla is as feisty as they come. She runs away from home to escape her mean-spirited paternal grandmother, Mamie, and to reunite with her mother who left her years before to make it big as a country singer in Nashville. She has delusions that her family will be reunited and all will be well again. On the way she meets a kind-hearted but meek African-American woman, Eula, who has absconded with a white baby she found on some church steps. A lot of adventures and misadventures occur, many of which are related to racism and race issues in the deep south. Little Starla learns over the course of the story how horrible the situation is for African-Americans in the south, and her “red-hot” temper often flares in the face of it.
If I had taken more time to find other books, I might have also discovered:
- The Children by David Halberstam (non-fiction: “an evocation of the early days of the civil rights movement”)
- All We Ever Wanted by Emily Griffin
The most exciting thing I did was create a playlist for our 10-hour drive on Spotify: Highway to Nashville.Β My top five favorites from this playlist of 92 songs are:
- “Hurt” by Johnny Cash
- “No One Will Ever Love You” by Nashville Cast: Connie Britton, Charles Esten
- “If I Didn’t Know Better” by Nashville Cast: Sam Palladio & Clare Bowen
- “Highway Vagabond” by Miranda Lambert
- “Wagon Wheel” by Old Crow Medicine Show
As I prepared this playlist, I started to get an inkling of why country music is so much fun!
Of course, I also prepared my journal and my intentions. I think I got a little too ambitious for this trip!

My journal and inspiring books

Nashville Intentions
With all my reading, journal-preparing, playlist-making and intention-setting, I was very excited about Nashville by the time we left home on Wednesday, December 27!
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βANTICIPATION & PREPARATIONβ INVITATION: I invite you to write a 750-word (or less) post on your own blog about anticipation & preparation for a recently visited or a future particular destination (not journeys in general). If you donβt have a blog, I invite you to write in the comments. Include the link in the comments below by Thursday, April 12 at 1:00 p.m. EST.Β When I write my post in response to this challenge on Friday, April 13, Iβll include your links in that post. My next post will be about Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. π
This will be an ongoing invitation, once weekly and then bi-weekly through April, and monthly after that. Feel free to jump in at any time. πΒ If youβd like to read more about the topic, see: journeys: anticipation & preparation.
I hope youβll join in our community. I look forward to reading your posts!
the ~ wander.essence ~ community
I invite you all to settle in and read posts from our wandering community. We only have one this time. I promise, youβll be inspired!
- Pauline, of Living in Paradise…, writes about how she was inspired to see some fall colors, and quickly put a plan into action to visit Tenterfield with its “blazing red autumns with stunning tree lined roads.”Β If I were there I’d like to stow away!
Thanks to all of you who wrote posts about anticipation and preparation. π
Informative post, My son and his family are going to Nashville soon so I will forward this to them. Looks like some great tips!
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Thanks, Vivian. We didn’t get to do everything on my list, but we did some things I hadn’t planned to do! All in all, it was loads of fun, but I feel we need to go back to do it justice. Three days wasn’t enough! π
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I love your third intention: to let a particular line influence your thoughts of a destination for that day. One of the things I enjoyed doing in preparation for a trip to Teotihuacan, Mexico was to research Mesoamerican culture and history.
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Thanks for your kind words, Atreyee. I’m trying to be more creative in both my travels and in what I produce from my travels, thus the intention. I still need to write those posts, so we’ll see how I do with my intention.
I love that you researched Mesoamerican culture and history before going to Teotihuacan. I bet that research paid off in giving you a deeper appreciation for everything you saw. I know it always pays off when I do that. Good for you!
Thanks so much for visiting. π
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Your enthusiasm is so infectious! Nashville is somewhere I’ve never wanted to go and I don’t much like country music, but you’ve just about convinced me I’m missing out. π π
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Oh Jo, I never liked country music but it was so much fun, we got infected. You’ll hear more as the story progresses. I ended up loving Nashville so much, we are now watching the Nashville TV series (a little soap opera-ish but still fun – and great music) and we figure we want to go back one day. I’d like to do a whole music trip – from Nashville (again) and also to Memphis. Who knows when it will be, but I hope sometime!
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Three particular treasures in this post: the line of a poem informing the day; the unusual thing; and the reminder about using the senses – such an obvious one that so often gets lost. I love the idea of travel intentions, especially when you revisit a supposedly familiar place. Iβm intrigued by your playlists – 92 songs? How long did it take to compile it?
Iβm in full anticipation mode now. Weekend intention is to continue the draft of my first post of the new adventure. And then a week of preparation – clothes choice spanning seasons, phones, tidy the house, flu injection, beautification, Kindle download, pills, and catch-up with a few final friends. Car service I leave to someone else!
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Thanks for noting those three things that you felt were treasures, Meg. This is a real challenge mainly for myself. When I am really observant and take notes, I can write using all 5 senses. But so often, I’m not observant enough, so I hope to make myself more so by being intentional about it.
As for the playlist, it sort of evolved bit by bit. One song led to another, and it kept growing over a period of time. I actually keep adding songs to it even now.
I can’t wait to read your post of your new adventure. And of course, it takes a lot of time to pack, take care of household matters, download or stock up on books, etc. It is all fun, but I love when all the logistics are taken care of and you’re on your way. Then the true adventure begins! π
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Iβm eager to put that first foot on the step of the bus in Bodalla. This time next week Iβll be on the way, all logistics taken care of (I hope!) I know a friend who got to Sydney (300 km away) with the wrong passport.
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How exciting! Have a great trip. Can’t wait to read about it!
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Great preparation again and love how your journal is progressing a good resource for future trips. I picked up on “use all your senses” Cathy, often so busy just “doing” that I forget to savour it fully. Thanks for the link, only 2 days before we take off.
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How exciting, Pauline! Bon voyage! I’m having fun with my journal (even though I am decidedly not artistic and my handwriting is atrocious!) but I love setting intentions, meaning, I hope, I’ll be able to create something new along the way. I have become so tired of writing a minute by minute blow of places I visited in diary form, talking about the history of places. I’m looking forward to creating new and different things going forward. Have a great trip!!!
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You are very creative Cathy and I think this new format you are using is very readable. Blow by blow can get a bit long winded. Good to keep records of the happenings though
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Thanks, Pauline. It’s all a work in process. π
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I’m always worried that I over plan things when setting out on a new adventure. I do research places to visit in the area and I shove a few favourite CDs in the car that I like to drive to, but I also like it when I discover something new, that is not on the list. However, I think a short break needs to be quite tightly planned to fit in things like the iconic places so not a minute is wasted. Barcelona was planned in such detail and it worked very well.
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I think if you have a short time in a place, you almost have to plan well so you can do the important things. Even as much time as we planned for Nashville, there were so many things we missed and we feel we’d like to go back. Things always take longer than you think they will. It is always fun to discover something new along the way, and it’s so nice if you have enough time to linger so that can happen. I wish I could linger in every place. I’d love to spend a week in one place and then move on and spend a week in another; sadly, I have time but not the money to do that. π
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You need to buy a camper van (or RV) so you can wander and stay where you like. If a place is nice you stay longer, if not, move on. I’d love to do that, but the OH would hate it.
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I would so like to do that, Jude, but every time I mention it to Mike, he says, yes, but then you have to haul that thing around with you everywhere. I think if it’s a trailer, you unhook it and leave it at the campsite; if it’s an RV, you haul a small car along behind. Anyway, I’d love it, but he thinks it would be too cumbersome.
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You need a VW camper van (Kombi) or one like Pauline had (Pommepal). Hook a couple of bikes on the back to pop into town and visit other places close by whilst leaving the van at the campsite.
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Yes, that sounds good, Jude. Maybe once Mike retires in a year or two. π
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That would be a great thing to do. Travel around the US and Canada and even Central America! Pauline and Jack spent a year travelling around Australia in Matilda and had such adventures.
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It would be a fabulous thing to do! Maybe one of these days! I’m excited enough for my road trip in May. I’ll be on the road for 25 days, 10 of them with Mike and the rest on my own. π
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Not too long now! You’ll soon know if you like travelling that way or not. And remember – don’t take too many photos!! Be selective. π
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Haha, that’s not likely to happen, Jude. I’m just getting ready to order a wide-angle lens, so I’m hoping to play with that along the way. π
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Yes. A wide angle will be very useful in that region. Lots of amazing landscapes.
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I hope so, Jude. I hope it won’t be too difficult to use! π
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Wouldn’t have thought so.
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Did you ever buy the cowboy boots?
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Awww, I guess I’ll have to reveal that in my upcoming posts about Nashville. π
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Love the way you prepare your travels! I learn a lot, thanks for sharing π
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Thanks so much! I’m also inspired by so many people! π
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I’m amazed at the thoroughness of your planning and preparation – particularly having the time to read novels set in your area of travel – and your travel journal looks like a work of art. π
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Thanks so much, Elaine. I have fun planning and trying to see how much I can make an art of the whole travel experience. I’m trying to push myself to really delve deep. I’d like to linger more too; I hope I can do that more in the future. π
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I think you are doing a great job of delving deep, and it must make the experience so much more meaningful. I’m not sure where you find the time to do all the delving! π
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Thank you so much, Elaine. I guess it’s the simple thing that I have finally, after many years of searching, found something I love to do, so I make the time for it. It’s all an adventure! Besides that, I’m lucky right now that I don’t have to work at a 9-5 job. π
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