I didn’t have much time to prepare for my mid-December escape to Cape May because, as it was an ESCAPE, I had to put my plan into motion quickly.
I barely had time to buy Moon Handbooks New Jersey and Off the Beaten Path New Jersey: A Guide to Unique Places, and after perusing the Cape May section, I noted all the things I wanted to do and see:
- Walk on Cape May beaches & through Cape May Point State Park
- Visit Cape May lighthouse
- Photograph the beautiful Victorian architecture
- Check out the Christmas decorations
- Visit the Emlen Physick Estate
- Walk around the Stone Harbor Bird Sanctuary
- Walk on the salt marsh trail and boardwalk at the Wetlands Institute
- Drive to Wildwood
- Eat lunch at Maui’s Dog House in Wildwood
I looked up pictures of some of these places and had fun adding some creative touches to my journal. Keeping a travel journal is something I plan to do without fail going forward (You can read more on my page on keeping a travel journal if you’d like some inspiration). I actually drew a picture of a Victorian house from an online picture, and I can’t even draw! It was fun to try; it looks a little lopsided, but oh well. An artist I’m not.
I found some pictures online and put them into my journal, but I guess I can’t show them to you as I would need permission from the photographer as long as the photos are recognizable. You can get a general idea from my photo. The flowers hopefully make the pictures less recognizable:

My Cape May Travel Journal
I normally read novels or memoirs about a place before I visit, but I didn’t have time. If I had, I might have read one or two of these books that take place in New Jersey.
- Bad Haircut: Stories of the Seventies by Tom Perrotta
- The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao by
- Drown by
- The Lay of the Land (Frank Bascombe #3) by Richard Ford
- Palisades Park by Alan Brennert
- Paterson by William Carlos Williams
- The Pine Barrens by John McPhee (non-fiction)
Because I want to improve my travel journaling, I made a list of intentions, so I could focus. As this is the first time I’ve ever done this, I kept my goals fairly simple. Here’s the list I put in my journal:

Cape May goals (now I call them intentions) 🙂
A number of years ago, I bought a bunch of vintage postcards of the 50 states. As they’ve been sitting around gathering dust, I decided to send the New Jersey one home to myself with some thoughts. Here’s the postcard. I’ll show what I wrote in a later post.
Finally, because I’d be in the car by myself for 4 1/2-5 hours, I made a playlist. It’s on Spotify: On the Way to Cape May; it includes 22 songs. My favorites are:
- “Jersey Girl” by Tom Waits
- “Atlantic City” by Bruce Springsteen
- “Jersey Shore” by The Promise Ring
- “Born to Run” by Bruce Springsteen
- “Nothing But Time” by Jackson Browne
Whenever I go on a road trip, I simply must have a playlist. I love to belt out songs at high volume as I zoom down the highway, and I honestly don’t care if anyone sees or hears me. 🙂
The master plan for this trip was to pamper myself, read some good books, write, get some space from my son and his issues, and quite simply, have an adventure. 🙂
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“ANTICIPATION & PREPARATION” INVITATION: I invite you to write a 750-word (or less) post on your own blog about anticipation & preparation for a recently visited or a future particular destination (not journeys in general). If you don’t have a blog, I invite you to write in the comments. Include the link in the comments below by Thursday, April 5 at 1:00 p.m. EST. When I write my post in response to this challenge on Friday, April 6, I’ll include your links in that post. My next post will be about Nashville, Tennessee. 🙂
This will be an ongoing invitation, once weekly and then bi-weekly through April, and monthly after that. Feel free to jump in at any time. 🙂 If you’d like to read more about the topic, see: journeys: anticipation & preparation.
I hope you’ll join in our community. I look forward to reading your posts!
the ~ wander.essence ~ community
I invite you all to settle in and read posts from our wandering community. We only have one this time. I promise, you’ll be inspired!
- Sue, of WordsVisual, wrote a reminiscence about the thrill of anticipation, back in the day when she traveled in a sports car, did Classic Car tours, and used maps to plan her route and the telephone to book her hotels.
Thanks to all of you who wrote posts about anticipation and preparation. 🙂
I bet you accomplished all of them too, Cathy! I love the image of you, bowling along, belting out the songs. Very thorough journalling too. 🙂 🙂 Happy Easter, hon! As forecast it was wet this morning so it’s been DIY. Just chilling and blog stuff this afternoon.
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You’re right, almost, Jo. I did nearly everything on my list in Cape May, and even met my intentions. It wasn’t too big of a town so it was easy enough. On my Nashville itinerary and intentions, I was WAY too ambitious. We missed out on a lot in our 3 days there! I feel like we have to go back.
It’s quite dreary here today but is supposed to be sunny Saturday and cloudy again Sunday. At least it’s getting warmer! I hope you enjoy your afternoon. I have to get busy exercising, and I have a walk planned for tomorrow. Carrying a backpack now for training; ugh! I hate carrying a heavy pack!
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Me too! 😦 Mick’s still painting and I’m the able assistant. 🙂
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Painting. Ugh! We painted our entire house when we first bought it. Now we hire out. 🙂 Have fun!
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The travel journal is lovely, I used to carry one with me and jot down things I’d see, or draw little sketches, write poems. Now I don’t travel so much overseas I tend not to use it, but I shall dig it out and see if there is anything of use in it. As for preparation, mine usually consists of a bullet point list of places to visit, times of openings, postcodes or directions, plus a bunch of Google map printouts!! Have a good weekend Cathy 🙂
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It’s weird, Jude, that your comment didn’t show up in my notifications, so I’m glad I looked at the page and found it here. I’d love to see photos of some of your old travel journals with poems and sketches! Or if you want to convert your journals into a blog post that would be cool too. Yes, a bullet list of places to visit is always good: times, addresses. I no longer use printouts of maps, but only the Google Maps app on my phone, but I know I should have a backup map in case there is no reception.
Happy Easter, Jude, and thanks for visiting and commenting. 🙂
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WP was doing system maintenance yesterday and I had trouble when creating posts, so maybe it just got lost! I wish they’d notify users when they are going to do this.
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Oh, maybe that was it, Jude. They definitely should alert users as to when that’s going to happen. 🙂
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Oh, goodness, you are so thorough, Cathy! I rely on memory and photos as I rarely write a travel journal, sadly….
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Haha, Sue, if I relied on memory, I wouldn’t have a tale to tell! Good for you. 🙂 Happy Easter. xx
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I’m sure that’s not true! Anyway, have a lovely Easter!
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Cathy you’re so thorough, whenever I go anywhere I do lots of research on the internet and buy a guide book. I always begin writing a journal but after a day or two I give up!
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I too often give up too, Gilly. That’s why I’m trying to be more disciplined going forward. We’ll see how that goes! 🙂
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I love your journal page Cathy so artistic and you have done a very good sketch too, I’m impressed. As for organisation I, like many others, Google the places and jot down on scraps of paper but sadly often misplace them, note to self must be more organised and get a journal…
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Thanks, Pauline. My drawing ability leaves a lot to be desired. I keep wondering if I could learn if I took a class. As for my journal, I need to be organized, plus I like the process of organizing and making lists, so for me it’s fun. I suggest only doing what works for you. Whatever you do in your own way is the best. 🙂
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Drawing is just practice and careful observation and I can see in your sketch you have the observation ok. I get books from the library and of course you tube has thousands of tutorials some good some mediocre, but worth watching.
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Next year it’s on my list to take some drawing classes, either that or horseback riding lessons! Haha!
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I used to love riding when I lived on a farm
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I used to ride when I was a kid, Pauline, but just on a neighbor’s pony. I’ve always had a dream of riding horses properly. 🙂
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Hi Cathy, This Jersey girl enjoyed your thoughts and journaling. Cape May is a beautiful, historic town “down the shore” as we say. Great post and I am glad you had a good trip!
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Thanks Jane. As a Jersey girl, you might enjoy my post about “the journey” to Cape May which will post on Wednesday. It might strike a chord with you! 🙂 I’ll be posting more about my time there over the month of April. 🙂
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Well Cathy here I am again and suddenly all excited about a short road trip https://retiredfromgypsylife.wordpress.com/2018/04/01/anticipation-and-preparation/
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I’ve already linked it to my post to air this coming Friday, Pauline. You’ll be on your way 2 days later! I’m excited to read about your trip. Have a great time and take lots of pictures of the fall colors! 🙂
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Thanks for the link Cathy. The camera batteries will be fully charged and ready to shoot…
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I’m so excited for you, Pauline! Have a fantastic trip. 🙂
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Thanks Cathy
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Wonderful post! There are so many great ideas here.. I love the idea of travel journalling, but I don’t often make the time on my trips to write in a journal – let alone draw. I think anticipation is often one of the best parts of the trip, and reading and researching a place before you visit gives the location so much more depth and meaning when you’re there.
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I agree, Dee. I love to spend time imagining the place, and reading about the history, as well as reading novels set there. It makes the whole experience all the richer! 🙂
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Very thorough, Cathy, and I love this – “Describe using all the senses: see, hear, taste, smell, touch” – this is so important. Happy Easter 🙂
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Thank you, Mahesh. I really paid attention on this trip to all my senses and kept good notes. Now I just have to challenge myself to write the post in the next couple of weeks! I agree, it is very important, but I so often fail at doing this! Happy Easter to you too!
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This couldn’t be more opportune! I’m devouring your posts as I head away again – for a 7th visit to the same place. You’ve given me some variations to consider. I like the idea of a theme – I’m min-mapping options as they occur to me (or to you!) As for preparation, this time I used a Gantt chart, which I think might also have got me on a 2-week self-planned trip around Eastern Europe a few years ago. Planning and anticipation has been interrupted by surprise bathroom renos, and an Easter writing and music festival week with a friend. This time in two weeks I’ll be getting ready to board and the next two weeks are semi-devoted to planning and anticipation (hair, facial and head; flu injections; medication in semi-bulk; sort phone arrangements; top up Sydney transport pass; maintain secrecy – my destination family doesn’t know I’m coming, and pI’m a blurter; oh, and the greatest challenge, pack light for between seasons.) Thanks for this post: it’s kickstarted me beautifully!
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I’m excited to have inspired some ideas for your upcoming trip, Meg. I didn’t know what a Gantt chart was, but I looked it up to find it’s a kind of project schedule. I’d love to see a picture of yours, so I could see how you use it. It might work out well for me on both my road trip to Four Corners area in May or even my Camino walk. Wow, you do a lot of things to prepare for your journey; now that you mention all those things: hair, etc. I realize I do those things too. Sometimes some shopping for new clothes as well! I hope you can keep yourself from blurting out your destination to your destination family! It all sounds very exciting. 🙂
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Mr Gantt will appear on the new blog, activated once the surprise has been achieved!
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Oh boy, I’m excited to see it! 🙂
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Sometimes anticipation is the best part of the trip. Other times spontaneity is. And sometimes you can have both. Love your travel journal!
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I agree, both are fun to embrace, Dawn. Thanks! I’m glad you like my travel journal. 🙂
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Wow! That’s a wonderful travel journal. I think you’re much more organized than I will ever be. I tend to fly by the seat of my pants although some trips just sort of organize themselves based on where we’re going (trips back to Ohio, for instance, or to visit family in New Jersey and Pennsylvania). I love your drawing of the Victorian house.
Now that I think about it, I used to be much more organized and draw up lists of what I wanted to see and do when I traveled. Now I just keep some general ideas in my head and then go with the flow. I also kept a written journal for the big trips. Blogging has sort of taken the place of my travel journal.
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Thanks so much, Robin. I usually don’t do this, but after seeing so many artistic bullet journals on Instagram, I was inspired to do something more than my normal journal. Still, I’m not an artist, so that part is a challenge. I’m glad you like my Victorian house. I took a picture of it when I arrived in Cape May; it will be the featured picture on my post of April 10; it’s the same view as my drawing!
I have often done just what you do, mainly because I haven’t taken the time to plan. As you’ll see with Nashville, so many of our plans fell by the wayside, not because we didn’t want to do those things, but because there simply wasn’t enough time. I’m always an overambitious planner.
I’ve always used blogging as my travel journal, but I’m often so far behind, I’ve forgotten all those great sensory details and encounters that would make the story richer. That’s why I’m doing the travel journal going forward, no matter what! 🙂 Thanks so much for contributing to the “journey” post. It just posted today.
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Just wanted to share a Camino related resource with you, Cathy. Delet if you don’t want it. 🙂 🙂
https://caminoways.com/collections/guidedtours?utm_source=CW+General&utm_campaign=7a7bf0eaf9-THINGS_YOU_PROBABLY_DIDN%27T_KNOW_ABOUT_THE_CAMINO_1&utm_medium=email&utm_term=0_2304e396b2-7a7bf0eaf9-298416745&mc_cid=7a7bf0eaf9&mc_eid=b7933373ff
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Thanks for attaching this, Jo. I’ll leave it up for anyone else who might be interested. It also has some other treks in which I might be interested in the future. However, I’m bound and determined, maybe foolishly, to do the Camino on my own. No group tour for me. I looked into it once; for one it’s much more expensive than doing it alone. Also, I can’t stand being with one group of people. I like the ever-changing nature of the Camino. Mike might like the Hiking and Cycling in Ireland part. 🙂
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I wasn’t thinking that you’d join a tour yourself, hon, but it has some interesting bits and pieces. I’m so glad you’re really doing it and I hope you get as much out of it as you hope to. 🙂 🙂 Hugs!
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I’ll definitely be studying it, Jo. I’m reading as many sources as I can to figure out what to take, what to expect, how to prepare. As many different ways to do it as there are opinions. Thanks for thinking of me! Hugs right back to you! xx
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