In January of 2008, I went on a study-abroad trip to Southeast Asia, part of my Master’s degree program in International Commerce & Policy at George Mason University. Singapore was our first stop. After about 5 days in Singapore, we went to Phuket, Thailand for a weekend and then on to Bangkok.
When I returned from our trip, we had to write a paper about our impressions of Singapore and another on impressions of Thailand. It was a good thing I was assigned to write this paper, otherwise I wouldn’t remember anything. I didn’t keep a journal but only took notes during our lectures. I apologize in advance for these horrible photos. I wasn’t much into photography in these early days of my travel. 🙂
I arrived a couple of days early, a Saturday, to explore Singapore. My classmate Juliana also arrived early, and on an open air Hippo bus tour, we saw Little India, Little China, and Arab St. After we finished, we figured we’d seen all of Singapore. What was next?

Orchard Parade Hotel
Outdoor cafes were steamy and uninviting in the soggy heat. There appeared to be no relief from the damp warmth, as eateries were in short supply. At the ultra-modern Meze lounge, described on the window-front as “Asian tapas,” we paid 15 Singapore dollars ($12.13) for a Tiger beer. We shared a plate of delicious Dim Sum dumplings. Hordes of young people walked the streets, but what were they doing? There seemed absolutely nothing to do but shop!
On Sunday, the day before our study abroad program was to start, Juliana and I found in our explorations a pristine, characterless faux-Western city filled with waves of young Asian faces. At the time, it was what I imagined Hong Kong must be like, but later I discovered Hong Kong has much more character. The city abounded with high-priced multinational businesses in one connected, shopping-mall-like maze of designer clothing stores, Starbucks coffee shops, 7-Elevens, five-star hotels, Hard Rock Cafés, and home furnishing shops. It was a melting pot of different nationalities, yet everyone spoke English. There were way too many American businesses to suit me. I frankly didn’t see the appeal.
The positives to the city were its lack of traffic congestion, its ethnic neighborhoods of Chinatown, Little India, and the Arab Quarter, its middle-class-looking housing projects, and its well-manicured green spaces brimming with bright flowers and textured leaves. At the ports of the city hundreds of red and yellow steel cranes tended to their offspring: huge shipping containers from all over the world. High-rise construction projects were in progress throughout the city. The skyline extended in every direction.
The humidity was oppressive in Singapore and it rained for some part of every day. It reminded me of Florida weather, which I hate. As Juliana and I ate an uncomfortable breakfast in the outdoor seating at the Coffee Club, two young women dressed in skimpy mini-skirts and glittery tops stumbled past, one holding up the other. Apparently they had just returned from a night-long clubbing excursion and were miserably drunk.
Little India, an ethnic neighborhood in Singapore, had Tamil and other cultural elements. The modest but colorful area of wall-to-wall shops, pungent aromas and Hindi film music was a relief from the prim and proper modernity of other parts of the city.
We passed the Sri Mariamman Temple, the oldest Hindu temple in Singapore, founded in 1827, with its colorful gopuram or tower with its wild plaster work images of bizarre Hindu deities, other figures and ornamental decorations. The tower tapered up towards to a molded ornamental ridge. Each level of tiers was slightly smaller than the tiers below, creating an illusion of height. Across from the temple were street vendors selling fragrant flowers that worshipers could buy as offerings to the gods.

Sri Mariamman Temple

street vendor across from Sri Mariamman Temple
Feeling hot and thirsty, Juliana decided she wanted a mango lassi, so we walked randomly into an Indian restaurant. A handsome young Indian man, The Straits Times spread out before him, asked us to sit at his table while someone made the drinks. He pointed to his name on the restaurant sign over his head: Madan’s.
When I asked him if he went to the Hindu temple we just passed on the street, he replied that no, he was Catholic. He asked what I was; I said a fallen-away Catholic, then an Episcopalian, and now nothing. Except that I found Buddhism appealing. He responded that he found Christianity the most moderate religion in that it accepts other religions. He believed Buddhism was too extreme; one can’t in reality give up the things of this world, such as eating and drinking. He thought Muslims were too extreme and they were taught to be intolerant and violent.
I asked him how old he was and he replied that he was 24. I said, “Juliana is 23!” Looking at me, he asked, “How old are you?” Juliana said, “Guess.” He said, “40?” I put my thumb up. He guessed again, “45?” I put my thumb up again and then said, “That’s okay, we’ll stop right there.” He said, “What is the secret of you looking so young? I hope I can look that young when I’m your age.” I thanked him and said I didn’t have any secrets.
As we drank our mango lassis, Madan told us he was Tamil. His father owned a spice factory and helped him open two restaurants. He was working on a business degree online through a London school. He told us his older brother got married in an arranged marriage. His older sister did too, to her mother’s brother (her uncle)! Madan was emphatic that he did not want an arranged marriage. He didn’t want to be married at all because he didn’t want someone to control him. At that moment, he said, a wife would be calling him and asking him where he was.
He said sometimes he went to church and saw a girl he was attracted to. It added excitement to his life because he looked forward to seeing her in church every Sunday.
He asked us if we feared for our lives because Americans carried guns and, in the news, Americans were always killing each other. He talked about Columbine and how students in American schools brought guns to school and shot each other. He thought it odd Americans should be allowed to have guns. I explained to him that we were a country of immigrants who came to America to escape oppressive governments and persecution. Americans distrusted government by nature and wanted to limit the power it had. We believe in the right to bear arms – it is a right conferred to us in our Constitution – in case we need to defend ourselves against a government gone awry.
Madan said he loved American movies, especially violent ones like The Terminator. He loved Arnold Schwarzenegger. He asked how Arnold was doing. I said I guessed he was doing fine, but that I didn’t keep up much with California politics. He discussed other American adventure/thriller/action movies.
He told us Asians in Singapore were always seeking to marry a lighter skinned Asian than they were themselves. It was considered a move up the social ladder. I asked him if he felt that way. He said he thought he would want to marry someone lighter skinned than he was, so his children would be lighter skinned.
We asked him if there were any fun things to do in Singapore and he suggested the bars and restaurants along Boat Quay. He couldn’t recommend a particular one because he neither went to bars nor drank. He handed me his business card, with “Madan Restaurant” on the front, along with his cell phone number. Then he asked for our emails, which we gave him. He said, “I want them in case I ever want to come to America.” As we got up to leave, he encouraged us to come back for lunch.
At a lovely teak-walled Indian restaurant where we ultimately stopped for lunch, the waiter brought out a bowl of rice, some large chips and a large rectangular banana leaf onto which he scooped three types of vegetables. He brought us towelettes to wipe our hands. We felt this all to be quite generous, until we got our bill. Whereas extra, unasked-for things would be complimentary in the U.S., everything was itemized and charged to us!

our lunch restaurant
We returned to the hotel for a rest before our group meeting that evening. On the elevator at 4:00, I encountered a scene I saw quite frequently in Singapore. A frumpy middle-aged American man was rubbing the long slender arm of a wispy, gorgeous Asian woman. He asked her, “What are you going to do now?” She rolled her eyes, looking bored. “Going home to sleep,” she answered. He looked so needy: “Love me! Love me!” his eyes seemed to say. I noticed this phenomenon throughout Singapore: frumpy middle-aged American or Australian men with beautiful, wispy Asian women.
In the evening, the other students from the study abroad program arrived and we attended a welcome dinner at the hotel.
Singapore: The Study Abroad Program, Singapore Press Holdings, Mount Faber Park, Masjid Sultan Mosque, Chinatown, Marina Bay and Merlions
On Monday, our study abroad program began in earnest under the tutelage of Associate Professor Ramkishen S. Rajan of George Mason University’s School of Public Policy in Arlington, Virginia.
The overview of our program was thus:
The School of Public Policy (SPP) Southeast Asia Study Abroad program focuses on two of the more developed Southeast Asian countries: Singapore and Thailand. Both are highly open economies which have been very successful in developing and growing rapidly by attracting large-scale foreign direct inflows and becoming significant global exporters in electronics and other areas. Both countries are also major tourist destinations. Both countries also experienced sharp slowdowns following the regional financial crisis of 1997-98 but have recovered since then and regained their economic vibrancy.
The focus of the program is to understand the trade and development experiences, paying attention to the key economic and political economy policy challenges facing these two countries and the larger Southeast Asian region in the 21st century.
At Singapore Press Holdings, Southeast Asia’s leading media organization incorporated in 1984, we learned from the Deputy Editor and Foreign Editor of The Straits Times that self-censorship was common among journalists as a result of government pressure. At the time, all newspapers, radio stations and television channels were owned by government-linked companies. The Sedition Act, in effect since British colonial rule, outlawed seditious speech, the distribution of seditious materials, and acts with “seditious tendency.”

Singapore Press Holdings
After our lecture, we went for views of Singapore from 116m-high Mount Faber Park, one of the oldest parks in Singapore. It was covered by a secondary rain forest with arenga palms, rhododendrons, bougainvillea, and Red Flame, Cassia fistula and Alstonia trees. Red-brick paths snaked through manicured gardens, pavilions, and look-out points with fantastic views over the Singapore Strait and onward to the Indonesian Riau Islands.

view from Upper Faber Point
A mural wall depicting scenes of local history could be seen at Upper Faber Point, the highest point in the park, where a tree was planted during the first Tree Planting Day.

Mural wall at Upper Faber Point
We found a three-meter-tall polymarble Merlion statue on Mount Faber’s Faber Point. The Merlion is a half-lion half-mermaid figure that is a well-known symbol of Singapore. Its name comes from the merging of the words “lion” and “mermaid.” The mermaid hearkens back to Singapore’s fishing heritage.
We visited Masjid Sultan Mosque, considered one of the oldest and most important mosques in Singapore. It was located in the Malay-Muslim Quarter of town. Its two-story high massive interior could accommodate about 5,000 faithful Muslims, with separate conference rooms and auditoriums to seat many more. It was decorated with handcrafted motifs, golden floral patterns and calligraphy. Several racist riots took place here in the 1950s.
We then ventured to Chinatown to see the Thian Hock Keng Temple, erected in 1821 by Chinese seamen grateful for safe passage; it stood where Singapore’s waterfront used to be, before the land was reclaimed.

Thian Hock Keng Temple

Thian Hock Keng Temple
Our group then headed to Merlion Park, a basin surrounded by Singaporean buildings and restaurants at Marina Bay, where we took a boat ride.
The original Merlion was first built in 1972 as an 8-meter tall sculpture at the mouth of Singapore river. The body was made up of cement, eyes from small red teacups and skin from porcelain plates. It was relocated later.

Merlion Park

Merlion Park

view from boat at Merlion Park

view from boat at Merlion Park

Merlion Park
A day of lectures at Singapore Management University & the IMF-Singapore Regional Training Institute
On Tuesday, we attended lectures with a Director and Senior Lecturer of Finance at Singapore Management University and three speakers at the IMF-Singapore Regional Training Institute Office.
According to the university’s website, Singapore Management University (SMU) was internationally recognized for its world-class research and distinguished teaching. Established in 2000, SMU’s mission is to generate leading edge research with global impact and produce broad-based, creative and entrepreneurial leaders for the knowledge-based economy. The lecture took place in the Lee Kong Chian School of Business.
In the early afternoon, we listened to three speakers from the IMF-Singapore Regional Training Institute office, which served as the International Monetary Fund’s (IMF) regional training center for the Asia-Pacific region. It provided training on macroeconomic and financial management, and related legal and statistical issues, to government officials from 37 countries.
In the afternoon, we took a boat ride to Indonesia, but I don’t remember which island it was. We saw views of Singapore from the water, and then walked around the very poor Indonesian island.

the cranes of Singapore from the boat

Singapore from the boat

Indonesia

men playing a game in Indonesia
In the evening a group of us went out and had our first experience of an Asian nightclub: the Ministry of Sound at Clarke Quay. It had a rotating dance floor and smoke rising from floor vents. The waiter kept intruding by sticking coasters under our drinks, on a glass table!
A Day at the Monetary Authority of Singapore, a Stop in Little India & a Night Safari
On Wednesday morning, we attended lectures at Singapore’s central bank, the Monetary Authority of Singapore (MAS). It promoted sustained, non-inflationary economic growth through appropriate monetary policy formulation and close macroeconomic surveillance of emerging trends and potential vulnerabilities. It managed Singapore’s exchange rate, foreign reserves and liquidity in the banking sector.

me at the Monetary Authority of Singapore (MAS)
My classmate Ryan, who became a close friend of mine during our Mexico Study Abroad trip in May of 2007, had arrived a couple of days late to Singapore. He hadn’t had a chance to explore the city outside of our lectures. Since we finished early today, the two of us headed to Little India and Clarke Quay to explore.
We sat outside at Clarke Quay to have a drink. Lying near the mouth of the Singapore River, the site of Clarke Quay was the center of commerce during the late 19th century. Today, Clarke Quay is still buzzing with life and activity, including a kaleidoscope of restaurants, wine bars, entertainment spots and retail shops.

me at Clarke Quay
In the evening, our group went on the Night Safari. We took a tram ride around the park and then walked along three trails in the forested park past 120 different spot-lit nocturnal species.

me at the Night Safari
Singapore: Lectures at ISEAS & a Dolphin Lagoon at Underwater World
On Thursday morning, we attended lectures with officials at the Institute of Southeast Asian Studies (ISEAS), dedicated to the study of social, political and economic trends in the region. The aim of the Institute was to nurture a scholarly community interested in the region and to engage in research within the fields of sociology, anthropology, political science, history and economics.
The intention was not only to stimulate research and debate within scholarly circles, but also to enhance public awareness and facilitate the search for viable solutions to the varied challenges confronting the region.
After our lectures, we took the Singapore Cable Car from Mount Faber to Sentosa Island, which called itself “Asia’s Favorite Playground.” It had such attractions as Butterfly Park and Insect Kingdom, beaches, nature walks, spas and resorts, and Siloso Point.

me at Sentosa Island

view from Sentosa Island
At Siloso Point, we visited Underwater World and its Dolphin Lagoon, where we watched a dolphin show.

Dolphin Lagoon
After the show we explored the rest of Underwater World, walking among leafy sea dragons and Medusa jellyfish. Stingrays and 10-foot-long sharks swam around us as the travellator took us through the Ocean Colony’s submerged glass tubes.

me at Underwater World
In the evening, we had a dinner meeting with the group.
On Friday morning, I looked at Singapore out our hotel window for the last time ever, and we prepared to fly to Phuket, Thailand.

last view of Singapore from our hotel

me with Ryan waiting to leave
I couldn’t wait to leave Singapore, and looking back on all 32 countries and the numerous U.S. states where I’ve traveled, I’d say Singapore ranks at the very bottom.
*January 5-10, 2008*
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Now that is a side to Singapore one rarely comes across. Little India and Madan weren’t any different from mainland India or the Madans that abound here. Still, it did give me a twinge hearing a familiar conversation taking place so far way from the native shores . Plus I’m never taking any items for granted as a part of expected services outside India now. Sad but true, nothing is free, not even water that’s served in bottles here. Another unsettling thought was the images of wispy girls and their unsuitable partners!
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It was an interesting conversation, Sheetal, one which showed a lot about the culture and the thoughts of someone outside of my own culture. Yes, I’ve found these “expected services” don’t really exist outside the U.S. I’ve been hit with bills for every little thing in Europe as well. Yes, the ugly white man with the beautiful Asian girl really is not a pretty sight. 🙂
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I noticed you didn’t go to Gardens by the Bay, but then I realized that it didn’t open until 2012, so you couldn’t have. The hot, humid climate of Singapore was not my favorite either (I can get that at home in Louisiana, ugh!) but the Gardens by the Bay was such an amazing experience that Singapore would not be in my bottom in the places I’ve traveled, but not in the top either. Maybe middle. I enjoyed reminiscing about my trip with your post! Thanks!
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No, Cindy, I was too early for Gardens by the Bay but I’ve seen pictures, and I probably would have liked Singapore a lot better had I seen that! I’m so glad you enjoyed it more than I did. Of course, having to attend lectures was not the most exciting thing to do when traveling, but at least they were interesting. And don’t get me started about humidity. It wreaks havoc with my hair and makes me look about 20 years older than I am! 🙂
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Oh your poor hair!! The real reason you didn’t like Singapore.
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The bad hair is definitely one of many reasons I disliked Singapore. And you should have seen the pictures of me I didn’t post. I look like a grandmother with all that frizz! 🙂
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I actually liked Singapore despite the humidity as I went there shortly after having visited Hong Kong which upset me greatly due to the enormous contrast between the rich and pool – someone one never saw in Singapore. I could have wept when I saw ancient women with tiny grandchildren sleeping under bridges with only cardboard to cover them when all around were homages to monetary wealth in the form of skyscrapers. And I visited (with a Hong Kong ex-pat) to visit the area where the old were taken to die in buildings that were like boxes stacked on top of one another. Mind you, this was in the early nineties so it may have changed somewhat. My guess is though, that it’s just been moved out of sight! I agree that Singers can be bland, it’s law-abiding and clean, but to me, it was preferable to the laisssez-faire attitude of Hong-Kong.
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I’m glad to know you liked Singapore; and how sad about the horrific sights you saw in Hong Kong. It’s interesting what different things we all look for in travel. I don’t care for super clean, upscale places where the wealthy congregate. I also felt that way about Vienna, Austria. I like a bustling, thriving culture with all its beauty and ugliness all thrown in together in one chaotic jumble.
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The photos might be too good. They all have Singapore looking pretty grand in contrast to your actual impressions. But then background is provided (really well) and maybe some kind of balance. I’m sorry Singapore was disappointing, though the reasons why certainly are compelling. I’m glad you had good experiences in Little India (except for costs of every little thing); at least, I think you did. And there were moments of enjoyment, here and there; you’re really good at finding these.
An acquaintance of mine lived in Singapore several years ago (which is when I knew him; he might be there, still). I’m not sure why he was in Singapore when his professional life was in Vietnam. He was (is) a historian and had written what was considered at the time the definitive history of Vietnam (the Vietnamese recommended it to the Vietnamese). Maybe living in Singapore made it easier for him to keep in touch with his family in the USA. I do know that life got better for him there when he got a cat. Maybe two cats.
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Interesting about your friend who lived in Singapore while writing a definitive history of Vietnam. Is he someone famous? The most interesting thing to me was the conversation we had with Madan, which opened our eyes to the Indian/Singaporean way of thinking. Other than that, I didn’t see much appeal. Thanks for coming along and for your observations, Christopher. 🙂
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I’ve been to Singapore twice, both times accompanying John to a conference (though the second time we built a holiday in Malaysia onto the end of it). I liked it because it was compact to walk around and I remember at least a couple of good museums. I avoided the shopping malls! I got the impression there were good places to go outside the city but didn’t have time to explore that far. This was 2005, so even before you went. I don’t think I’d make a special effort to go back, though it has enough interest for a stopover.
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I’m glad you found some things to like about it Anabel. I obviously missed those museums, and the things we did do didn’t hold much interest for me. 🙂
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Asian Civilisations Museum and Singapore Art Museum according to my diary! I remember a little museum in one of the shophouses in Chinatown too, but that might have been the first visit in the 90s.
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Good to know, although it’s highly doubtful I’ll ever go back there again unless I get stuck there on a stopover. That could happen. Thanks for sharing those places though. 🙂
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I wonder if you’d feel differently if you visited now, Cathy? This is a long time ago and I’ve seen images where it looked very beautiful indeed. Of course, you can’t change the humidity, and the smog situation they sometimes have doesn’t look like fun. I was a little surprised by you defending the gun culture in the US in view of what repeatedly happens in your communities. I guess nowhere’s perfect. 🙂 🙂
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Gardens by the Bay might have been a great place to see (I’ve seen plenty of wonderful pictures of it on Instagram), but it wasn’t built at the time I was there. Other than that, I don’t think I’d be any more thrilled by hit than I was back then.
I certainly wasn’t defending the gun culture in America, I was just telling it like it is. Americans feel very strongly about their right to bear arms, and it is enshrined in the Constitution. I don’t see that ever changing. However, we do need common sense gun laws, and certainly no one needs automatic weapons meant for warfare. There is no need for assault weapons, and guns are out of control on the streets. Anybody can buy them, apparently, without much in the way of background checks. The NRA (National Rifle Association) has way too much lobbying power in this country, and lots of money to buy support for their ideas.
All of that being said, I would like to know that if Trump continues to incite violence among his followers, I could go out and get a gun to defend myself. We could be in a Civil War one of these days.
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That seems extreme, Cathy! I can’t imagine carrying a gun. Violence begets violence and where does it end? Death and broken lives. Aren’t we better than that?
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My visit to Singapore was in 2003 so even longer ago. It was a 3 day stopover to break the long flight back to London from Australia. We actually enjoyed it, despite the humidity. We avoided Orchard Road and its shops, but we walked a lot, went to Raffles and had an expensive but excellent Singapore Sling and visited the extremely good zoo. We also took a trip over to Malaysia and visited an orchid farm and a stilt village, but we didn’t much care for that. I’d like to visit again to see the gardens by the bay and probably will if I ever get my Australian trip organised! BTW I quite like your wavy hair 😊
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The trip to Malaysia sounds like the best thing, along with the Singapore Sling! Gardens by the Bay does seem magnificent, but I don’t thing I’d want to bother going back just for that. I was decidedly unimpressed.
Thanks about my hair. I hate it when it’s frizzy like that, and there were many pictures from my time there I would never show to the general public. But it’s nice to hear you say something nice about it. 🙂
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