I started off our first morning in Charleston by writing my husband to see how things went the previous night with our son.ย He said things had gone very well; they had a good talk about Mike’s childhood memories and various other agreeable subjects and it was very laid back.ย I was relieved he hadn’t had to endure another meltdown, and I felt a little bit of that lingering black cloud lift.
Sarah and I drove to Liberty Square in Charleston and bought tickets for Fort Sumter National Monument Tours – Spirit of Charleston. We waited in a long queue in the warm, humid and breezy morning. Once on the boat, we cruised from Aquarium Wharf through the harbor to Fort Sumter.
We had great views of Charleston Harbor and the islands of the Cooper River Estuary and a marina.

Charleston Harbor

Charleston Harbor
We admired the Arthur Ravenel Jr. Bridge, a cable-stayed bridge over the Cooper River, connecting downtown Charleston to Mt. Pleasant. It has a main span of 1,546 feet (471 m) and is the third largest among cable-stayed bridges in the Western hemisphere.
A cable-stayed bridge has one or more towers from which cables support the bridge deck.ย A distinctive feature are the cables, or stays, which run directly from the tower to the deck, forming a fan-like pattern or a series of parallel lines.

Arthur Ravenel Jr. Bridge

Charleston Harbor

Charleston Harbor
Today, the battered Fort Sumter stands at the entrance to Charleston Harbor on an artificial 70,000-ton sandbar, being part of the third system of fortifications ordered after the War of 1812.ย Begun in 1829, enslaved laborers and craftsmen were among those who built the structure.
South Carolina delegates to a special secession convention voted unanimously to secede from the Federal Union on December 20, 1860. In November, Abraham Lincoln had been elected President of the United States with no support from southern states.ย South Carolina listed its causes for secession, including: the newly-elected President was hostile to slavery; the Federal Government encroached upon the rights of the sovereign states; and the 14 northern states failed to endorse the Federal Fugitive Slave Act or to restrict the actions of antislavery organizations.
Within six weeks after South Carolina’s secession, five other states – Mississippi, Florida, Alabama, Georgia, and Louisiana – followed its example. Early in February 1861, delegates adopted a constitution, set up a provisional government – the Confederate States of America – and elected Jefferson Davis as their president. Soon, Texas joined.
When Abraham Lincoln was sworn in on March 4, 1861, he vowed the government would not consent to a division of the Union.
Fort Sumter was still unfinished when Federal Maj. Robert Anderson moved his 85-man garrison into the day after Christmas 1860, setting in motion events that would tear the nation apart four months later.
On April 11, Brig. Gen. Pierre G.T. Beauregard, commander of the Confederate troops in Charleston, demanded that Maj. Anderson surrender Sumter (Fort Sumter National Monument – National Park Service pamphlet).

Fort Sumter

Fort Sumter
Major Robert Anderson refused to surrender Fort Sumter when requested to do so in the early morning hours of April 12, 1861. A few hours later, the first shot of the Civil War was fired from Fort Johnson by Confederate Captain George James.ย The 10″ mortar shell, a signal for bombardment to begin, exploded above Fort Sumter. The first return shot from Fort Sumter was fired by Captain Abner Doubleday, the man once credited as the father of baseball (Moon: Charleston).

canons at Fort Sumter
After various shots were fired by Confederates throughout the day, with some return fire by the Union, Anderson surrendered the garrison.
The Civil War had begun.

canons at Fort Sumter

Fort Sumter

Fort Sumter

canons at Fort Sumter

canons at Fort Sumter
We watched the raising of the flag.
We walked through the museum.

Brigadier General P.G.T. Beauregard of Louisiana
The U.S.S. Keokuk, hit by a crossfire of 90 projectiles from Confederate guns on Fort Sumter and Sullivan’s Island, sank off Morris Island on the morning of April 8, 1863. Later, the Southerners recovered her guns and mounted one on Fort Sumter.

The U.S.S. Keokuk
Federal forces finally reclaimed the Fort on April 14, 1865, four years after they had originally surrendered it.

The Stalemate Reaches an End
The Fort Sumter Flag had a diamond-shaped pattern of 33 stars. When the main flagpole was felled by a shot during the bombardment of Fort Sumter by Confederate forces, the flag was retrieved and remounted on a makeshift pole. The flag was lowered by Major Robert Anderson on April 14, 1861 when he surrendered Fort Sumter, at the outset of the Civil War.

The Stars and Stripes – Fort Sumter’s Battle Flag
We walked around the grounds of the fort while we waited for the boat to take us back to the mainland.ย Of course, I got my cancellation stamp for Fort Sumter.
The trip took about 2 1/2 hours.ย I didn’t spend as much time perusing the Ft. Sumter Visitor Education Center as I would have liked because Sarah was ready to explore the town.
After we docked, we walked down Calhoun Street to King Street.

Discovery Map of Charleston 2019, showing Calhoun Street to King Street
We found a fabulous mural on a nondescript building.
We passed Emmanuel African Methodist Episcopal Church, known simply as “Mother Emanuel.”ย It is one of the South’s oldest African American congregations.ย Before the Civil War, one of the church’s founders, Denmark Vesey, was found guilty of planning a slave uprising, and the edifice of the church was burned as retaliation for his involvement (This event was featured in the novel The Invention of Wings by Sue Monk Kidd). The church today dates from 1891 and has hosted greats such as Martin Luther King, Jr. and Coretta Scott King, as well as Booker T. Washington. In 2015, nine worshipers, including the pastor Clementa Pinckney, were horrifically murdered by a white racist (Moon: Charleston).

Emmanuel African Methodist Episcopal Church
We continued walking through Marion Square, once a parade ground.ย It is flanked on one side by the Old Citadel, now a hotel.

The Old Citadel
We made our way down Calhoun Street to King Street.

Calhoun Street
The College of Charleston is the oldest college in South Carolina; its historic Sottile Theatre serves as a performance and event venue for the College and the community.

Sottile Theater on George Street
At Basic Kitchen on Wentworth St., we sat at the bar for lunch.ย Lamps with fringed shades lined up along the bar. I had the day’s special: Salmon Tartine: salmon tartare, beet relish, yogurt, and dill on pain de mie.
I enjoyed a Cranberry Rosemary Cooler: cranberry rosemary shrub, club soda and rosemary. Sarah enjoyed a hibiscus iced tea and Vegan Caesar: crisp chickpeas, pine nut “parm,” and cashew Caesar dressing.
After lunch, we strolled down colorful King Street, the shopping center of Charleston.

King Street

King Street
We walked to Anthropologie and looked around, then to H&M, where Sarah bought a number of things.ย I stopped at Urban Outfitters to look at the Fujimax cameras. We stopped at a cookie shop and got snickerdoodles and a chocolate crunch cookie.
We made it back to the car as it began sprinkling, then drizzling. We stopped at Harris Teeter for groceries.ย I got a bag of boiled peanuts, one of my favorite southern snacks, for donating $1 to charity.
We returned to our Airbnb to relax, eating all the boiled peanuts in the meantime. Sarah napped and then we each took long hot baths.
In the evening, we went to Chez Nous, with its tavern-like atmosphere: quiet, dark, with simple plain furnishings and exposed ceiling rafters.ย The menu here changes daily and there are only a few choices.ย The owners handwrite the menu each day.

Chez Nous Menu, November 12, 2019
I had Padrones (peppers) with shrimp, fish with roasted tomatoes, haricots verts & aioli.ย ย Sarah had a salad with ham and cheese, and roasted rabbit with farro.ย We both got clafouti with cherries for dessert. The meals were great but the dessert was mediocre. This was a very expensive place: it cost us $168 before tip!
Back at our Airbnb, we relaxed.ย I watched a junior chef show with Sarah, then read my book, The Invention of Wings, by Sue Monk Kidd.
Meanwhile, back at home, it seemed our son went to his massage therapy class from 5:00-11:00, but we found out a few days later than he didn’t go to class at all but was afraid to tell my husband.
*Steps: 11,385, or 4.92 miles*
*Tuesday, November 12, 2019*
So difficult living on tenterhooks like that, Cathy. Never knowing the right thing to say or do and trying to keep it light. He seems to be getting by somehow, but it’s a bumpy ride. Sending hugs, darlin! ๐ ๐
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Tell me about it, Jo. It seems to be the story of my life. Now it seems he is happily living in Nicaragua and has made friends there, surviving on nothing. But he doesn’t mind living a minimalist life, although he would certainly be capable of much more if he applied himself, got an education, got help, and if he cared. But he doesn’t care about material possessions at all (or so he says). We’ll see what happens when he runs out of money and calls us for more! It is definitely a bumpy ride, and that time in November when I was in Charleston was particularly horrible for our whole family. Thanks for the hugs, Jo. xx
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Another item that is still on my bucket list. Thanks, Cathy, for taking me there virtually. ๐
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You’re welcome, Pit. It’s a nice town to visit for sure. ๐
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It’s very interesting to learn about the origins of the Civil War. That bridge is amazing. I’m always in awe of the engineers who create these fantastic structures.
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I loved that bridge, and I’m always amazed by them too! ๐
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Sadly still challenging family times for you Cathy. Hopefully better times to come soon.
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Yes, we’re always struggling with that one, Albert. I fear the situation with him will never change. But oh well, we all have our struggles, right?
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True – we just have to work to remove them or adapt to live with them.
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Since I have not been keeping up with blogging regularly, I am not sure I get the reference at the beginning of your post. Whatever it may be, it does carry hints of struggle, so I wish you the best.
Meanwhile, Charleston looks darling. My brother had gone for medicine studies there, years ago, and had told me it was charming. I see now what he meant. Your photos including those of the food are fab. I love the handwriting on that menu. x
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The reference at the beginning has to do with ongoing longtime struggles with my son, who has a lot of issues and struggles with life on a daily basis. While I was in Charleston, the problems really got out of hand; sometimes I think he melts down just when I go away; he did the same when I was in Morocco and Italy!
Charleston was darling, but my daughter was focused on food, and I wanted to do other things besides eat (although the food was fabulous!). A little push and pull there, but it was a good experience overall. ๐
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Thank you for taking the time to explain. I hope spending time with you during this pandemic has brought him peace of mind.
Hah, I would explore a place through my belly as well! ๐ Well, it did come across as a fun trip from your photos and narration. You have a good weekend! xx
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Actually heโs now in Nicaragua and has been since the pandemic started in mid-March. You have a good weekend too!
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This did not look very familiar to me, though I we have been as recently as 2011. Then I remembered shopping in what must have been King Street. John had managed to pack his old gardening shoes instead of his walking shoes! And of course, if he was buying shoes then I had to have some tooโฆ
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Oh, always there is a good excuse to buy new shoes! Maybe you’ll recognize more of Charleston in my next two posts. They’ll appear later in the coming months. ๐
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Finally, a place that I have been to, too! A friend and I took some time on a longer trip to visit Charleston, though we only had a day and stayed close to the water. We did take a boat to Sumter and toured around the fort. Later in the day, we found an excellent seafood restaurant without even trying, leading me to believe that’s simply the way it is in Charleston.
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Nice that I’ve hit on a place you’ve visited, Christopher. I think you can easily find good restaurants in Charleston “without even trying.” I hope you enjoyed Fort Sumter. I particularly enjoyed the boat ride out. ๐
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I had to turn down a trip to Charleston last year and every time I read one of your posts my regrets surface! Glad you got so much out of it, and so many pictures for us to look at. Hope your family problems continue on this hopeful note. You have all our good wishes you know.
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Thanks for your good wishes regarding my family situation, Mari. As for Charleston, I hope you will get there one of these days, but I wouldn’t set foot in South Carolina now with their COVID cases. I enjoyed our time there, but would have wandered more and eaten less had my daughter not been along. It was fun to travel together though. ๐
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Thanks for showing me Charleston in South-Carolina where I have been in 2003 for a customer meeting as part of my former job (Commercial Project Manager for Siemens AG, Energy Sevices). My memories are completely different, but I also only had a couple of hours for discovering a little bit the city centre of Charleston. The jetlag was quite heavy, stayed just 60 hours in the town, than back to Europe. Modern times …. ๐
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I’m so glad to have visited a place where you’ve been, Ulli. I’ll be writing more about Charleston over several other posts, so maybe you’ll recognize more from your 2003 trip in those. I can imagine the jet lag made your experience rather foggy. ๐
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