In 2009, I was at a place called Tarbouch in Arlington, VA and an Iraqi guy and a Syrian woman told me, as we smoked apple-flavored tobacco in a hookah, about the ancient Middle Eastern art of coffee cup reading. The Iraqi said he had the ability to read cups. He told me to drink all my coffee, turn my cup over on the saucer and let it dry. I did as he instructed, and he proceeded to read my cup. What surprised me is that when I looked at the cup with him, I could see very clearly two people walking forward. A larger person with an Arab headdress was in the front. Behind this person was a smaller, slighter, more delicate person. The Iraqi expressed surprise, as did I, at the clearness of the picture. He said it was an Arab man and a woman of unidentified nationality; his belief was that it was me following behind an Arab nomad, walking in his footsteps. It was very odd; that image stayed with me until I was in South Korea in 2010.
ORIGINS:
Maybe it was the photos of the lovely Hagia Sophia, its shimmering mosaics and smooth marble, in a long-ago art history class. Maybe it was the descriptions of Turkey in a novel called The Black Book by Turkish author Orhan Pamuk: vials the color of pomegranates; the sea swirling around … delicate ankles; the seaweed and seven-colored oil spills; Alaaddin’s bustling shop. Maybe it was the Turkish Groove Putumayo CD with the song “Kirmizi Biber” by Bendeniz. Or singer Tarkan’s “Kuzu Kuzu” on YouTube. Maybe it was the pictures of the cave dwellings of Cappadocia, with its fairy chimneys and otherworldly landscapes. Maybe it was falling in love with the call to prayer in Egypt, and then being beckoned to Turkey for that same call to prayer with a European twist.
What are the reasons we are pulled to any destination? I could twirl a globe and wherever my finger lands, I could go. However, I can’t ignore certain places that speak to my heart, places that promise mystery and romance and adventure. Places that are exotic and far-removed from my daily existence. Most of these places for me are in the Middle East. After having been to Egypt, and falling headlong in love with its dusty, teeming streets, its people, the pyramids, the Nile, I know I am drawn to these places. High on my list are Morocco, Lebanon, Jordan, Syria, Egypt (again), Turkey. Other places have beckoned as well: Italy, Greece, Spain, Portugal, China, Cambodia, Vietnam. Africa beckons, Peru, Brazil…. the list goes on.
I didn’t know a thing about Islam or Middle Eastern culture until I started reading voraciously about the Arab world following the September 11 terrorist attacks. A domino effect followed. I started writing a novel and felt compelled to make one of the characters an Egyptian man. I had never in my life met a single Egyptian, so I decided to study Arabic in the hope of learning more about the culture, mainly to make my character more realistic. Then I took some international relations classes at community college and I loved them so much I applied for a Master’s program at George Mason University in International Commerce & Policy. In the summer between the two-year program, a Muslim friend of mine gave me information about a program to study Arabic in Egypt for one month. I went there and studied Arabic at Al Azhar University in Cairo in July 2007. I fell in love with Egypt, though it made me incredibly sad to see all the poverty there.
I was teaching English in Korea and one of the things I wanted to do was to take advantage of the proximity to Asia to travel. However, when my two-week summer vacation beckoned, I couldn’t get excited about China or Japan, try as I might. I originally wanted to go back to Egypt, but several things turned me off to it. The idea of Istanbul kept pulling at my heart. Various things happened which only reinforced that calling to a place with such rich history, a place that is Muslim yet European, a place that straddles Asia and Europe. When it came time to buy my plane ticket, I was still debating, but the price was right for Turkey. So, off I went, to the former Constantinople.
I would depart from Korea on July 21st. Oh, sweet anticipation. 🙂
Istanbul:
Cappadocia:

Cappadocia
Ephesus:
Pamukale:

Pamukale
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“THE CALL TO PLACE” INVITATION: I invite you to write a 500-700 word (or less) post on your own blog about what enticed you to choose a particular destination. If you don’t have a blog, I invite you to write in the comments. If your destination is a place you love and keep returning to, feel free to write about that. If you want to see the original post about the subject, you can check it out here: imaginings: the call to place.
Please include the link in the comments below by Wednesday, June 27 at 1:00 p.m. EST. When I write my post in response to this challenge on Thursday, June 28, I’ll include your links in that post. If you’d like, you can use the hashtag #wanderessence.
My next post will be about my upcoming road trip to Buffalo, New York and Niagara Falls.
This will be an ongoing invitation, monthly (on the fourth Thursday of each month) after that. Feel free to jump in at any time. 🙂
I hope you’ll join in our community. I look forward to reading your posts!
the ~ wander.essence ~ community
I invite you all to settle in and read a few posts from our wandering community. I promise, you’ll be inspired!
- Indra, or TravTrails, wrote about her call to Hong Kong for the Chinese New Year in 2019, with evocative memories of the festivities she enjoyed in previous years, in The Inner Connect — Hong Kong
- Sue, of WordsVisual, wrote about how she heeded a call to the Ystwyth Valley ( in Welsh, actually Cwmystwyth) from an article in Country Life magazine showing an image of an abandoned mine building, in Y is for Ystwyth Valley
- Anabel, of Glasgow Gallivanter, wrote of her call to Hampshire – to accompany her husband and meet up with a blogging friend, in A Call to Place: Hampshire
- Eunice, of Life In The Mouse House, wrote beautifully about her call to camping and Anglesey in A Call to a Place (1).
Thanks to all of you who wrote posts about “the call to place.” 🙂
I understand your amazement for the Oriental world quite well as I have been to quite a lot countries in the Arab world, mostly for my former job. But honestly trips to the Sahara in Lybia and Tunisia were the most existing experiences and of course a visit of Abu Simbel in Southern-Egypt.
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It’s nice to meet someone else who has a fascination with the Arab world! I’d be curious to know what your former job was. I’m sure your trips to Libya and Tunisia were fabulous, as well as Abu Simbel. I taught English in a university in Oman for two years (2011-2013) and also traveled to UAE and Jordan. Prior to that I spent a month in Egypt (Cairo & Alexandria) studying Arabic (2007). There are still so many places I’d love to see in that part of the world. Thanks for visiting and commenting!
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I used to work as a commercial project manager for a big German company in the energy sector (services for power plants). So I have been to quite a lot of Oriental countries like Turkey, Algeria, Tunisia. Libya, Egypt, Syria. Bahrain, Kuwait-City and Saudi-Arabia. People are very different in these countries and sometimes quite challenging to get familiar with the diverse attitudes and local habits. Tunisia used to be my favourite country also for private travelling while the mentality in Algeria was most convenient for me, very direct communication like in Germany. Unfortunately the security situation is very bad in most of these countries but Morroco is still missing on my list, may be I visit it next year, some beautiful places and cities there to be found. Unfortunately I have only some photos of Tunisia but a lot of pictures in my mind what is the most important.
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Wow, you have been to so many countries in the Orient. It is quite a challenge to live among people with such different cultural attitudes, but it was certainly interesting. I would love to go to Tunisia, Algeria and Morocco. I spent a month in Egypt and would love to go back. I’d also love to go to Lebanon one day. And of course I lived two years in Oman. I’ve heard Syria was once beautiful; it’s so tragic that that country is being destroyed on a daily basis. I hope you make it to Morocco. I dream of going next year and I hope I can swing it! Thanks for sharing all of your experiences. 🙂
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Well usually I have been to the countries for shorter but multiple visits, so in Syria I have seen quite a lot before this bloody war destroyed this beautiful country such as the famous Palmyra. A lot of Palestinians there (Muslims and Christians), and before the war these two religions lived together in real peace, therefore I do not understand why the Western world is only blaming this Regime, the Syrian Christians support in any case the actual government what is simply ignored in Europe or elsewhere. A real demogracy in the Arab world actually in Tunisia, but even in Kuwait the newspapers were free and critical. Lebanon should also be nice like Syria but not really secure for private travelling as far as I know. Both countries were one political unified region in the past, there is even an Arabic word for this. Hope this info is a bit helpful. It is a great tragedy what is happening in this Middle-East region now for many years! Take care @ Ulli
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Thanks for sharing all of this, Ulli. Your experiences in the Middle East have obviously made you informed and wise. I agree, it is all a great tragedy what has been happening in the last half of the 20th and the first half of the 21st centuries in the Arab world.
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Brilliant post and one that brought memories of our months in Turkey. Our experience was a roadtrip and a couple of housesits, which gave us a different view than yours. I enjoyed the photography, brilliant view of the landscape. Not so sure about getting up in a balloon!! The Turkish people are wonderful and unfortunately, they do not have a leader with their welfare at the top of his list!!
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Living in Turkey for months at a time would have been a fabulous experience, Suzanne! It’s a truly beautiful place and one I’d love to go back to one day. Ataturk was a great hero and you’re right, their current leader does not have the people’s interest at heart. He is dismantling so many of Turkey’s freedoms and modernity. I know people who had to escape the country after the failed coup attempt.
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It was a great experience to see how another culture lives. A very scary situation back in Turkey. Let us hope for the country that somehow things are turned around.
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I really hope so, Suzanne. I loved that country so much; it’s one of my favorites. I hope the political tide turns in many countries, including my own!
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Not sure if I leave my link here to participate? https://globehousesitterx2.com/2018/05/23/roadtrip-surrey-to-nth-yorkshire-pt-1/
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Thanks for sharing this fantastic road trip, Suzanne. I’ll add it to my next post “on journey” in June! Thanks for sharing it! 😊
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Thanks Cathy 🙂
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What an amazing life you have had Cathy, thank you for sharing it with us. Quite amazing where the twists and turns of fate take you
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My life seemed so dull to me before 2007, Pauline; when Mike and I separated in 2007, my life opened up! When we got back together in 2014, I was determined to keep the adventurous and independent spirit I discovered in myself! It seems to be working out well. I think I needed that period of self discovery. 😊
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I agree, time on your own to decide your life is a wake up call and gives you an independent spirit. I was 10 years on my own between separating and then meeting Jack. Often wonder where I would be today if I hadn’t gone my own way. You certainly are living life to the full. Good on ‘yer as they say over here…
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Thanks, Pauline. Only people who have been through similar circumstances can understand this quest for adventure and independence. I’ve been judged plenty for it, believe me. But those were some of the most essential and revealing 7 years of my life. I wouldn’t have traded them for anything. 🙂
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I think sometimes the ones that “sling off” at you are secretly wishing they had the strength to do the same, maybe a bit of jealousy coming to the surface. Certainly makes you a stronger person
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Sometimes I think the same thing, Pauline! I’m glad I did it, despite have to pay a price in many ways. Overall, it was good for me and my personal growth, so I’ll never have any regrets. 🙂
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What an amazing number of places you have been! And we keep discovering more strings to your bow – learning Arabic and the Masters in International Commerce, for example. Thanks for the mention.
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I have been lucky to have been to so many places, Anabel. Thirty countries + one U.S. territory + all over the U.S. I got my Master’s in 2008 when I was 52. It never did me any good career-wise because it was just too late in the game, but I learned so much. As for the Arabic, I loved studying it but have now forgotten most of it, sadly, I’d love to study it again. It’s such a beautiful language.
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I think I get to about 20, plus 3 of the 4 countries of the U.K. (still never been to Northern Ireland). Over 20 American states though, but I can only count that as 1! I could never settle down to formal learning again, but I enjoy gaining knowledge informally through my history tourvguiding etc.
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Twenty American states is no small feat, Anabel. And 20 countries is amazing too! I haven’t kept track of states, but I got addicted to collecting the stickers and stamps for the National Parks and Monuments on this trip. I’ve been to many already, but I already visited one again, the St. Louis Arch, on my way home, just to get the stamp! I’m excited about this new U.S. passport! 🙂 I’ve driven through so many states but not really stopped in them, so I don’t feel like I can actually count them! 🙂
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Still plenty to go! My aim was to get round all the States but I doubt I will make that now.
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Well, Anabel, if it makes you feel better, I saw little blatant evidence of support for our current administration, although I’m sure it’s there. People simply didn’t talk to me about it, possibly because we were strangers out there. I expected to find blatant support there. We stayed at an Airbnb in Moab in a couple’s home; they hinted that they were supporters, but they weren’t in our face about it. I wouldn’t let the current government stop you from visiting. That gives them power over us which I’m not willing to accept!
I’m excited that someone from another country has, or had, a goal to get around all the states. We do have some beautiful country here, and some great National Parks and monuments. If you ever come to Washington, I hope you’ll consider staying with us, but I think you’ve already been here? 🙂
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It’s a tough one – whether to stay away and make a point that he is a pariah or not. However, if tourism drops that doesn’t hurt him (I’m not in the market for a visit to one of his golf courses!) but it does hurt the ordinary b&b or cafe owner. We have been to your neck of the woods, but that’s not to say we won’t return, and we would love to visit if we did. This summer, we are staying in Scotland. John has been back and forward to China so many times he is sick of flying!
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I know the feeling, Anabel. The whole reason I went to Japan was to make a statement that I wanted no part of this administration or the people who support it. But I had to come back home, and now I’m determined to not let anything about this man or his supporters affect any decisions I make in my life. I am going to keep living my life and voting in elections and speaking out against injustice and tyranny. I still loathe him and his supporters.
Sometimes it’s good to stay close to home. Flying really takes a lot out of a person!
Well, keep in mind, the invitation’s open! 🙂
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I certainly will! Thanks so much.
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Thanks, Suzanne, for the link about the stunning Hagia Sophia. I’ll link it to my next call to place on June 28. 🙂
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Thanks for sharing this fascinating piece about the wonderful Hagia Sophia. I’ve linked it up to my next call to place post of June 28. 🙂
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Your post about Turkey reminded me of my own travels in that country. While my knowledge of the Middle East is nowhere near as profound as yours I was deeply affected by my time there. Here is a post I wrote about one place I visited. https://beinginnatureblog.wordpress.com/2018/05/25/in-hagia-sophia/
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I loved this post, Suzanne, and have linked it to my next Call to Place post. You and I are similar in that I was drawn to Hagia Sophia through Art History classes, plus my developing love of Arabic and fascination with the Muslim world after 9/11. Your description and photos are magnificent. 🙂
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Thank you linking Cathy. I’m glad you enjoyed the post. In my coming journey to Spain you might be interested to investigate the Moorish architecture of Alhambra etc (if you haven’t already done so).
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You’re welcome, Suzanne. I’ve been to Spain and spent time in Andalucia, where I fell in love with the Moorish architecture. When I return in September, I’ll be walking the Camino de Santiago, so I’ll be in the north of Spain. I wonder how prevalent Moorish architecture is in the north.
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I don’t think there is any in the north. Good luck with the walk. It sounds gruelling but immensely rewarding if you are on a Christian spiritual journey.
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Thanks, Suzanne. I wouldn’t call it a Christian spiritual journey, but a spiritual journey for sure! I’m sure it will be immensely rewarding. 🙂
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Oh I thought it was based on some Saint’s journey, sorry for misinterpreting.
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People do it for many different reasons these days! 😊
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Cathy, your first photo is gorgeous. A hot air balloon ride is on my wish list and I would love to do it in a spectacular location like this.
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Thank you, Carol. That was an amazing experience, one that I’ll never forget. I highly recommend doing one in this landscape. Also, I’d recommend one in Bagan or Inle Lake, Myanmar. I wish I had done one there, especially Inle Lake. 🙂
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What a life you’ve lived and what places you’ve been, and how thoroughly you’ve been there. The only place I’ve read voraciously about is Poland, but that wasn’t in prospect. I’m awed by the learning paths your interest in the Muslim world took you down. Your Turkey photos are beautifully chosen, and this call to place is so intricate.
As for time out from relationship to consolidate independence, I absolutely understand that. When I separated in the early 90s I had no idea what I liked or who I was. By the time we too returned to some sort of relationship my self was strong and life for both of us was infinitely better.
Your post and its comments provoke so many ”me too” thoughts. My first overseas travel was to Egypt in the mid 1990s when my daughter was living there. That familiarised me enough with the Middle East to travel on my own through Syria and Jordan in 2000 for a few weeks, with a stint in the middle as a volunteer on a dig at Pella in Jordan. Then … Poland took over as travel destination. Right now I’m feeling a wimp because I’m not camping on the banks of Loch Lomond with my Polish family. Warsaw seems oddly empty without them.
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Thank you so much for your kind and thoughtful words, Meg. It was funny, like most Americans I had little interest in the outside world until 9/11, at which time I started reading voraciously about the Arab world. Then I became interested, started writing a novel in which an Egyptian character plays a major role, and then started studying Arabic. Finally, I went to Egypt in 2007 to study Arabic for a month and fell in love. My trip to Turkey followed in 2010. I ended up living in Oman for two years (2011-2013), and traveling to Jordan and UAE. It’s been a convoluted path, but somehow I feel mesmerized by this part of the world.
Your travels to this part of the world sound fascinating as well. You’re lucky you got to see Syria before the horrible current conflict and the country’s destruction. I’m not familiar with Pella, Jordan. That must have been a great volunteer opportunity.
I’m glad to find someone else who separated for a period to discover one’s self. It sounds so cliche, but it was so revealing for me. I needed that time to myself, and even my husband agrees it was a good thing for both of us.
Too bad you didn’t go camping on the banks of Loch Lomond with your Polish family. I’m sure it does seem empty without them. I’m not much of a fan of camping myself. Was that the reason you didn’t go? When will they return?
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Wonderful post, Cathy. You’ve been to so many amazing places! I enjoy traveling vicariously through you. I’ve been on some travels of my own (not nearly as exotic) and I’m working on getting somewhat caught up. 🙂
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Thanks so much, Robin. I just returned home Friday evening from my road trip around the Four Corners. I’m a bit travel weary after 25 days on the road and also have a lot of catching up to do! Can’t wait to read about your travels. 🙂
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I loved all of these place and would have liked to spend more time there, Istanbul particularly, I’m sure you’d like Marrakech too.
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I know I’d love Marrakech, Gilly! I hope hope hope to go next year! 🙂
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It was after going to college, I developed a such admiration and fascination for the Arab world. Where I study has a huge Islamic community. I often attend all the events by them. Just recently I started watching Turkish and Persian movies. I found the culture very interesting much different from the western culture. The people have so much hospitality. Reading your posts makes me want to visit one of the countries one day. The one on my top list is turkey. I heard their bazaar and souk is really a must to explore.
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I know what you mean about that fascination with the Arab world, Rosy. I didn’t come to that until late in life, but now I have it and enjoy exploring that world. That’s great that you study with Islamic students. I have also taught them in university – English as a Foreign Language. I’d love to know what Turkish and Persian movies you have found. I love to watch foreign films.
I agree people from those cultures are very hospitable. I know if you make it to Turkey, you will love it. It is one of my favorite countries of all time. The bazaar is great, and the mosques and the landscape are fabulous. Thanks so much for visiting and commenting. 🙂
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Ones of my friends hooked me up with a Turkish show Kara para ask. Thereafter, I have been obsessed with watching any Turkish. Sadece sen is the one I have watch lately. It was really good. Small September affair is really good too. You should try them out. It’s really great 🙂
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Thanks so much for letting me know about these shows, Rosy. I’ll have to see if I can find them. I hope I can!! 🙂
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