A cold front blew its way into Virginia on the Friday morning in March we were due to leave for Pittsburgh, knocking out our power at 3 a.m. We showered, dressed and ate breakfast by battery-powered lantern and candlelight and then abandoned our house to the elements.
Driving through snow flurries on a slate-colored day, the wind ripped branches off tree trunks. Bare trees like tangled candelabra danced wildly along the road.ย Through Virginia, whitewashed silos and barns shivered on the land, along with horses and hay bales. Black cows sat folded on the fields. Wheat fields wore sloppy crewcuts, as if a clumsy barber had hacked away at them with oversized zig-zag scissors.
My Pittsburgh Tunes playlist belted out bluesy songs about working in steel mills or on the Monongahela River, setting the stage for the hard-working, once-industrial city.ย Sean McDowell sang:ย “Now I’m stackin’ bricks in Pittsburgh Town / I make two bucks a week workin’ on Lime Hill.”
As we crossed the Potomac into Maryland, Irene Cara sang optimistically from the 1983 movie Flashdance, “What a Feeling:”
Take your passion
And make it happen
Pictures come alive
You can dance right through your life
What a feeling
On my phone, I opened my emails to find the Dictionary.com word of the day: phub: (slang): to ignore (a person or one’s surroundings) when in a social situation by busying oneself with a phone or other mobile device.ย I told Mike about this word I’d never heard before, and he asked, as I scrolled through my phone, “Hey, are you phubbing me?”
Prickly, urchin-like trees congregated around a red barn near Hagerstown, while Mohsin Hamid said in an online interview about his book, Exit West, “Human life is transient.”ย We understood this, and lived it, moving from there to there, suspended in the middle. Life flowed like cool breath over the tired earth.
We passed Sharpsburg, Hancock, Breezewood, and Cumberland through maize-colored fields when, at last, Welcome to Pennsylvania! greeted us by billboard. Phantom Fireworks burst with promise as we sped by.

I-76, one of the highways making up the Pennsylvania Turnpike
Tarnished-silver clouds hung like heavy draperies over a drab brown landscape spiked with spiny white trees.ย Horse farms dotted roller coaster hills. We drove along a mountain ledge overlooking a valley, where a brown weathered barn hunkered down in a snow sprinkled hollow. Stacked lumber settled neatly in a lumberyard near Crystal Spring, and snow blew sideways like a sandstorm.ย Uplifts of snow swirled into mini-cyclones, while feathered grasses swayed to and fro in a wetlands area.
Pete Seeger sang “Pittsburgh Town is a smoky old town, Lord God, Pittsburgh… All I do is cough and choke in Pittsburgh.”
Poor Pittsburgh has such a sooty reputation.

paying tolls on the Pennsylvania Turnpike
We soon passed the exit for Shankstown, where the passengers brought down one of the planes on 9/11.ย Brown igloo-shaped storage containers holding sand for icy roads sat in wait for snowstorms along the Pennsylvania Turnpike.
At 11:19 a.m., on the other side of a mountain pass,ย blue skies peeked through scattering gray clouds and the snow disappeared as if it never was. Farm equipment gleamed at Rolling Rock Equipment and a glowing light spread itself fetchingly over rolling hills.ย A white farm-house looked otherworldly.ย A billboard for Peace Love & Little Donuts made sweet promises. Maybe there was hope for the weather after all.
As we rolled into the city, the Quebe Sisters sang:
I am a poor, wayfaring stranger
Traveling through this world alone
And there’s no sickness, toil, or danger
In that bright line to which I go
It was lunchtime by the time two wayfaring strangers arrived at the University of Pittsburgh and sought out food and warmth at Fuel & Fuddle.

Fit and Fuddle
A Pittsburgh specialty, Chipotle Polka, offered itself up: mini-potato & cheese stuffed pierogies smothered with sweet onions, bacon and smoked jalapenos in adobo sauce, topped with sour cream, cheddar and Monterey Jack cheeses; I washed this feast down with a Hitchhiker Trial by Fire beer. For dessert, oddly, the waitress brought us fortune cookies.ย Mine said: “The wheel of good fortune is finally turning in your direction!”ย I hoped so!
Our waitress wore an aqua-jeweled nose ring, mismatched dangly earrings and a “Feminist Killjoy” necklace.ย When Mike asked her about her necklace, she shrugged, “I guess because I’m a feminist, I’m a killjoy.”
Another server wore a black tank top that said on the back: No crap on tap.ย Yet another had her hot pink hair pulled back in a ponytail. It was bustling place, with athletes tossing balls around on wall-mounted TVs. It was tough to leave such a cozy spot to go out in the cold. But. We peeled ourselves out of our seats and headed out to explore the city.
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โON JOURNEYโ INVITATION: I invite you to write a 750-1,000 word (or less) post on your own blog about the journey itself for a recently visited specific destination. If you donโt have a blog, I invite you to write in the comments. Include the link in the comments below by Tuesday, May 15 at 1:00 p.m. EST.ย When I write my post in response to this challenge on Wednesday, May 16, Iโll include your links in that post.
If youโd like to see the original post about this invitation, check out: on the journey: taking ourselves from here to there.ย I’ll be writing about a journey I’ve already taken, as I’ll be on my 25-day road trip around the Four Corners area, and I’ll only be doing scheduled posts during that time.ย I’ll still add your links if you want to join in.
This will be an ongoing invitation, every third Wednesday of the month beginning in May. Feel free to jump in at any time. ๐
I hope youโll join in our community. I look forward to reading your posts!
the ~ wander.essence ~ community
I invite you all to settle in and read a few posts from our wandering community.ย I promise, youโll be inspired!
- Jude, of Travel Words, wrote about the her trip to the southwest of the U.S.A., west of where I’ll be going on my May road trip.ย I love how she thought of film and song titles along the way.
- Pauline, of Living in Paradise…, wrote about her road trip to see autumn colors in Tenterfield, New South Wales, with some misadventures along the way.
Many thanks to all of you who wrote posts about the journey. Iโm inspired by all of you! ๐
I like the immediacy of your writing. Your description of driving through the snow storm reminded me of when I had to drive my son 50k to hospital when he had appendicitis. It was snowing and I was driving a truck. It was quite an adventure but was many years ago now so doesn’t fit with your challenge though.
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Thanks so much, Suzanne. I’m glad you like reading of my journey. I would love to read about yours through the snow in a truck, even if it was many years ago. If you’d like to link it up for my next journey post, feel free! ๐
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Thanks for the invite. It’s not really a happy travellers tale so I don’t think I’ll write about it just now. I had entirely ‘forgotten’ (buried) it until your description of falling snow reminded me.
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That’s fine, Suzanne. Sometimes we just don’t feel like writing about a certain topic. It’s always a challenge traveling in snow, isn’t it?
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It sure is. Thanks for understanding.
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Beautiful writing, and I love the idea of travelling along with a place-specific playlist! I’m Polish and love pierogis, but never knew you could find them in a place like that ๐
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Thank you so much for your kind and encouraging comment, Dee. It was fun creating the playlist and singing along in the car. I think Pittsburgh has a huge Polish community, maybe that’s why the pierogis. My husband’s family is Ukrainian and German, and my mother-in-law used to make homemade pierogis all the time. I love them!
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You describe the route to Pittsburgh so well. It’s a route I’ve been on many, many times. It always amazes me how the snow seems to swirl around the Somerset area. Once we get past it (usually heading east but sometimes heading west), the skies clear and it’s like entering a different season.
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Thanks so much, Robin. I have been on part of this route before, but never the whole way. It was really strange how snow and gray skies were on one side of the pass, and absolutely not a drop of snow and blue skies were on the other side. It was very surprising, and uplifting. We thought we were going to have a dreary day in Pittsburgh, but it turned out to be sunny, although icy cold! ๐
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Thanks for the link Cathy. Loved reading this, very descriptive and made me feel like I was travelling with you,
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You’re welcome, Jude. Thanks for writing something for the invitation. Thank you too: I’m glad you enjoyed it. ๐
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Phubbing! Half the world is guilty of that right now, aren’t they? ๐ ๐ Loved Mike’s response. It was certainly a memorable beginning, Cathy! Really great descriptive passages. ๐ I’ve stalled a bit on your challenges. I have so much flitting through my head right now, it’s hard to pick a direction. The living room floor has little bundles of photos that I’m trying to whittle down. But the great news is that the sun is finally shining ๐ I shall take them all out in the garden tomorrow.
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Everyone does phubbing these days, Jo. I just never knew there was actually a word for it! I know you’re really busy Jo; selling a house and moving are very stressful. You’ve got plenty to do without worrying about my invitations. May will slow down a bit anyway, as I’ll be gone on my trip. I do have scheduled posts, so if you want to contribute, feel free. Otherwise, wait until summer! Good luck going through photos. That is a big job for anyone. At least the sun is shining and the garden will be a great place to “weed” through them. ๐
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That’s very true ๐ ๐ Thanks, Cathy. I’m excited for you.
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Very atmospheric, and as a bonus axlink to a Jude post iโd never seen before.
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Thanks, Anabel. I’m glad you were led to one of Jude’s posts you hadn’t read. ๐
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I love your reminiscences in sounds and sights and smells….oh, and flavours…..
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Thanks so much, Sue. It was fun all around. And the food was great! ๐
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Result, then!
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I do like the thought of peace, love and little donuts – all the good things together. You’ve matched your journey to some great music, Cathy.
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Thanks, Carol. There are so many cute names for eateries. Having the music matched to the destination is lots of fun. ๐
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So you were right out in the boondocks? What an adventure, there’s so much the to see in the vastness of the States.
I’m hoping to try some pierogis in June ๐
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While we were driving, we were pretty much in the boondocks, Gilly. There really is so much to see here, and though I’ve seen a lot, I’ve started to tally how much I’d like to see, and it seems there are an infinite number of places left to explore. Where will you be trying pierogis in June?
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Warsaw, and I get to meet Meg ๐
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Cool! That will be fun! I know you’re excited about that.
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I loved this piece so descriptive and I felt I was sitting in the back seat with you, wrapped in warm clothes, and definitely not phlubbing!!! Looking out the window at those cows sat folded on the fields. Wheat fields wearing sloppy crewcuts. Great writing. I loved that flash dance movie and songs it takes me back to my trip back/home(?) to Uk. and lots of adventures. Thanks for the link, Maybe the post I am currently putting together will be suitable. I’ll get back later. (I’m just waiting for the photos to download and catching up with posts I’ve missed while I was away.
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Thank you so much, Pauline. I’m so glad you weren’t phubbing!! I’m trying hard to take my writing up a notch because I’ve been incredibly lazy in recent years, and so I’ve been disappointed in myself. So I’m really happy you like it.
Isn’t it funny how music does take you back to places and times in your life? It’s evocative for me in that sense. I’m sure any of your road trip posts or any posts where you focus on either prose or photography will fit any of my invitations. I look forward to seeing more. Your trip to Tenterfield looked wonderful. Autumn colors are one of my favorite things in life. ๐
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Your writing has most definitely gone up quite a few notches Cathy, it makes very enjoyable reading.
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Thanks so much, Pauline. I know I have the ability if I put some work into it. I’ve been reading some of my old journals in the process of writing my memoir, and I noticed back in 2000, when I was taking creative writing courses, my fellow students voted me as best prose in class. But I never believed it and shortly forgot it. It doesn’t come naturally for me, so it takes some work!
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Not sure if this is suitable for this theme Cathy it is not about getting to the place, but in a way it is about getting to the top. Anyway I will leave it for you to decide. https://retiredfromgypsylife.wordpress.com/2018/04/19/into-the-mountains-day-4-of-the-road-trip/
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It’s perfect, Pauline. It’s like a journey into another world. What an amazing place. I’d love to go here! My next journey post will be on May 15, so I’ll link it up to that. ๐
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LOVE the imagery of your second paragraph! It definitely made me smile.
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Thank you so much, Sheri. It was fun to try to be more observant, to take notes and then shape the experience later. I’m glad I made you smile. ๐
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